Any One Ruine Their Relationship With Famaly Over Weed?

Discussion in 'General' started by B.C. Budz, Dec 20, 2006.

  1. When my Parents found out that i got caught at school they freaked, my dad like hit me in the face and threatend to kick me out of the house...lol. He is like i dont want my son to be a drugy thats a disgrace to the famaly. Any drug to them is a huge NO No lol. But yeah i still live with them and im 18 so i have to follow their rules. They have lost all their trust in me and yeah. I actualy dont want my parents ever knowing because i actualy want to be something and make them happy cause they have done alot for me. Theres couple more time when they caught me but w.e. Any ways how do your parents react and how has weed changed their relationship with you?
     
  2. I can understand your parents getting pissed off but did your dad really hit in you in the face? If so, that's a little overboard. If I were to ever get caught by my parents i'd accept the fact that they don't want me doing drugs in their household, but if my dad were to hit me i'd be most likely hit him back harder, although I know that wouldn't solve anything.
     
  3. My mom knows and I've lost a bit of her trust but I'm earning it back. My does not and hopefully will never know.
     
  4. Both my parents are always freaking out cuz my friends come over and they freak and say its a coffeeshop in my room and shit.

    Fuck them.
     
  5. mom calls me a pot head and looks for shit in my room.(i have great stashes) if she finds she flushes. but other then that nothing relly changed
     
  6. Yeah, my parents use to be real strict about weed, but the more i did it and the more i got caught they just dont make it a big concern about it.
     
  7. Yes my dad hit me in the face...Its a bit over board but i understand where he is coming from. Im not american so my parents are from a 3rd world country and they had to strugle and use their brain to get wher they are righnt now, so they dont want to see their son trun in "dumb ass" from weed as they think. So i do my best to hide it.
     

  8. I personally have too much respect to ever hit either of my parents. I've taken a few good whoopings in my day and I can honestly say I deserved everyone I ever got. Im 20 years old now and my dad hitting me now would be another story, even so I would never hit him back, ever.
     
  9. Yeah true. I deserve every whooping i got by my dad and i would never ever ever hit them... even tho i had thoughts like the in my head when i was super pissed:eek:
     
  10. My mom was always on my case after I got caught when i lived at their house. I stopped doing it because i respected their house and rules within, but she still would give me hell about it. I had a blacklight and a lava lamp in my room (still do actually), and she would always ask me: "why do you have these pothead lights?"

    when i got caught, my mom (who I know has never done anything other than beer) treated me like an idiot. She was talking all slow like it was difficult for me to understand her when i was high. Then my mom was asking me all these questions and i was answering her, but after a while she said "you're not even going to remember this anyway tomorrow, so just go to bed"

    ignorance sucks
     
  11. if u smoke everyday you'll notice alot of your clothes reak like mary j, and thats how my parents knew all the time, it was huge at first, but then it became a small small thing, not even a problem
     
  12. my mom knows, she goes "your not smoking are you?" and i said "weeellll" lol, she just laughed at me and said "dont be stupid with it, ok?"
     
  13. Well, it really depends on the circumstances. I have taken many beatings(not brutal) over the course of my childhood, and my dad took even more in his childhood(i'm pretty sure he was beat a lot,he grew up in the 60's, it was common back then), but if he were to punch me in the face over something as minor as me hitting a bong in my room that seems a little out of line. I most likely wouldn't punch him back, but i'd probably shove him out of my room for the time being or throw my 30 lb cat at him.
     
  14. imo sit your parents down explain to them some things about it and then if they dont understand just tell them atleast it isnt crack. Smoking with your parents is always an experenice, and if they toked in high school you can learn alot of shit. Mine use to trip acid, they still got a huge roll of paper that they would draw on when they were tripping, pretty wild shit. :smoking:
     
  15. Not really, cause ive gained their trust back and they think i quit. Im sure if they found out i was still toking they would cause shit, im still in their house and everything, but honestly it would be their attitude and me not wanting to hear it that would ruin things. Weed in my opinion shouldnt ruin our relationship as far as im concerned, but if they find out then its up to them whether to pitch a fit, piss me off, and start problems.
     
  16. if you honestly think smokin weed leads to a life of nuthin u need to stop now cuz u are why weed is illegal. listen my aunt smokes alot of weed yet she manage to get str8 A , yes STR8 AAAAAAAAS in college for 4 yeas and now has a good job, a kid, a husband and lives a woderful life and still smokes.



    and ur dad is a shit head for punchin you in the face. what kind of coward hits there son in the face.
     
  17. I am nearly extinct to my family. But I just think of it as whatever happens, is bound to happen anyway.

    Recently, in a marijuana-induced argument, I said to her "one day I'm going to prove you wrong, and when I do, you won't ever see me again."
     
  18. The sense of smell degrades over time with recognition of the subconscious to the smell.

    It became a 'small small' thing after a while because your parent's subconcious eventually gave into the scent of cannabis and it no longer shot off an alert in the brain as something unusual.

    As for me? My dad is a chronic alcoholic. He drug tested me every two weeks when he found out I smoked (Due to laced weed, landing me in the hospital, mind). It was with the best intentions, I'm sure, but had I known then what I do now, I would have actually held up an argument.

    I'm actually back in Chicago now, visiting my dad, and it always goes rather well. So no.. I can't say it destroyed the home life... But it did diminish a bit of trust in him to me. That was temporary, though. Since I moved, he seems to have lightened up a bit.
     
  19. weed isn't a drug it's a herb:smoking:
     
  20. Im 30 next week but when I was 14 I started experiementing with different drugs and alcohol, including solvents, gas and perc's. Nothing major just a bit bit of acid here and there, a shit load of cider everyweekend, Tamarzipan, hash etc.....nothing to worry about unless you're a parent of a deliquent kid. Got busted shoplifting once had a party and trashed the house whilst my mom and step dad were on honeymoon. My mate even didi a doughnut in the Lounge / sitting room on his motorcycle.

    Anyway to cut a long story short, my asshole of a stepfather hated me, and always said he would see me in jail with all the other stoner junkies. He kicked me out of the house and made me homeless at eighteen.

    Well fuck you stepfather, ten years down the line I've been to collage, held a job in accountacy for 4 years, moved on and got into private label design, got a £290K($580K) house, two cars, and a wife'n'daughter. Guess what.......last christmas he spent two weeks in prison on Drink Driving Charge, left my mom and is now a raving alcoholic.

    I still smoke and grow and couldn't be more settled and normal.

    Tell your parents to chill you aint going to become a helpless junkie. If anything you less likely to get ill coz of the MJ (unless you get lung cancer but hey!)

    I had the Last Laugh!
     

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