First of all, I have smoked for about a year now once a week or so but lately i have had some friends that think i should and some that think i shouldn't. They have caused me so much so much anxiety and i have no clue on what to do. It gets to the point where i start shaking and can't think straight. If i smoke i let down half my friends but if i dont i let down the other half. My honest feeling is that as long as it doesnt interfere with other parts of my life its ok and since it doesnt for me i think its ok at the rate i do it. I have no fucking clue what to do anymore though.
Stop thinking about what your friends want from you and start thinking about what you want from yourself
^^ this. Make up your mind what you want, than do what you think is right. What the fuck do your friends think they should tell you what to do? Did you go around and ask them or do they just tell other people what to do and what not?
Make decisions yourself, just do not be high around your homies that do not smoke. I feel that most people go through this, myself included.
I've never seen so many "serious problems" regarding marijuana before coming across this board. Reminds me of that scene in Half Baked. "You in hea', cuz'a marijuana? Man this'a some bullshit." "Marijuana is not a drug. I used to suck dick for coke."
you'll never make everyone happy so focus on making the most important person happy, that being yourself.
Why do you care so much about what other people think? You're too busy trying to please everyone else, that you're forgetting about yourself. Do what you want.
[quote name='"nunsbythebundle"']First of all, I have smoked for about a year now once a week or so but lately i have had some friends that think i should and some that think i shouldn't. They have caused me so much so much anxiety and i have no clue on what to do. It gets to the point where i start shaking and can't think straight. If i smoke i let down half my friends but if i dont i let down the other half. My honest feeling is that as long as it doesnt interfere with other parts of my life its ok and since it doesnt for me i think its ok at the rate i do it. I have no fucking clue what to do anymore though.[/quote] They aren't friends if they are trying to tell you what to do. Real friends don't give a fuck either way. /thread
If the bud is causing you anxiety then maybe you should quit or take a brake until you feel better.If your friends are good friends then they should understand your decisions.And you gotta be careful with those smoking buddies.A lot of times they just care about getting high and not at all about you.
He's laughing about how frequently people post about the same subject, not the person experiencing anxiety. The OP could do a quick search and find plenty of opinions about this.
read a few and it is as if they all use a basic script...spin it a little here and there and let the thought of the evil pot making you go loonytoons is seeded..causing anxiety and then advice to go confess to a dr about your addiction to pot... fear the evil weed...you'll go crazy, get addicted, suffer the withdrawals (like those smack addicts) and then your babies will be born naked ...oh the horror 3 of those things are a lie...sorry...but, your babies will be born naked... ya..I went there...
[quote name='"cball"'] read a few and it is as if they all use a basic script...spin it a little here and there and let the thought of the evil pot making you go loonytoons is seeded..causing anxiety and then advice to go confess to a dr about your addiction to pot... fear the evil weed...you'll go crazy, get addicted, suffer the withdrawals (like those smack addicts) and then your babies will be born naked ...oh the horror 3 of those things are a lie...sorry...but, your babies will be born naked... ya..I went there...[/quote] ^This is what happens when you dumb kids decide to start pottin it up on weed
You just have to decide who you wanna be. Do you wanna quit smoking or not? Whichever friends you feel are your real friends are the ones you should stick with.