So, as the title reads, my girlfriend is somewhat anti-social. She doesn't have very many friends, and literally never hangs out with the ones she does have. As a result of this, she's always looking to me for "entertainment" (lack of a better word). When we hangout together, we're always alone. She doesn't enjoy hanging out with other people. Her favorite thing to do? Chill out & watch a movie. It gets tiresome after a while. I have to convince her to hangout with me & my friends, go to parties, etc. What do you blades think? We've been dating 10 months now, I don't want to dump her over this.. however I don't want to keep flaking out on my friends because she has so many "needs"
I mean if you're bored with the relationship, either fix it or find someone else. Simplest way to put it
my gf and i are the same way, she doesnt hang out with anyone and i dont go out of my way to make plans with people. we go to the park or chill at the house. does she get upset when you want her/you to go hang with ur friends ???
If she's boring you then end it. If not, tell her you're tired of just watching movies and want to go out.
When you say "needs" "entertainment" do you mean sex? If you do i dont see the issue here, just go fuck her, hang out for a while and then go on and do your shit... You dont need to be right next to her every day at every moment... If thats what you want then get married dude
i've been there and had a boring girlfriend. just do your own thing, man. it's probably best to find someone else unless you're fucking her 24/7
How old are you OP? This sounds exactly like something I went through. Dump her with quickness, her way of thinking is going to bring you down. I'll elaborate further if you want...
If she gets too attached and you break up with her she will probably say she is going to kill herself. She will not.
Yo your girlfriend sounds like the shit! This is how my convo's usually go: Me: "hey babe, feeling kinda tired you wanna just chill, smoke and watch a movie or something?" Her: " TAKE ME OUT AND SPEND YOUR MONEY ON ME AT ONCE!!!" **Paraphrasing slightly, but not really.
Make a game out of it... Going out and doing social things will earn her points, and she can spend those points on sexual favors, or something.
And then you can put her on a leash and take her for a walk! Ooh, and give her a treat when she fetches, because these are also demoralizing things! Seriously dude? Points for sexual favors? You must not have very healthy relationships. o_o If this girl isn't interested in the same things you are (socializing, etc) then you're not going to last very long, and you can't really change someone's personality. Tell her how you feel, and see if she can compromise. If she says no, then... I hope you find someone else who brings out the best in you instead, man.
Those who feel the need to brag about their 'trolling' are just trying to hide their embarrassment at being called out for their stupidity. That, or they need more friends. I suggest you grow up.
Sounds like a Good girl to have, I mean she doesnt sound like a drama queen or diva of any sort.Does she burn? Try to get her out slowly, go to the park, just you guys, other people around but not with you guys.
