So there's this girl in my math class that I met a couple weeks ago, she's really quiet and shy but she is gorgeous.. I really like her and it's very clear that she likes me a lot too. I've tried to talk to her a couple of times but it kind of lead no where. Talking to girls has never been a problem for me until I met her, I just don't know what to say. I'm the most picky person in the world when it comes to girls, and she is the first girl I met in a long time that is worth going out with. It's very obvious that she wants me to talk to her, and it's pretty awkward because I usually end up not saying anything. It gets more awkward as time goes by, and it is making me crazy. I just want her to be less shy because i can tell she would be cool once she opens up. I'm not afraid to ask her to hang out with me, I just think it would be strange since we don't even talk to each other really. What should I say to her the next time i see her? I'm hoping you guys can help me out a little bit.
I can't tell you exactly what to do but the longer you wait to make a move the easier you'll fail with this girl, just be attractive, find out what she likes/dislikes, and build a common bond with those--easier than you think man.
For me its loads easier making conversation 1 on 1, cause i dont like trying to make all that small talk, which for me is what happens in class. Anyways, dude, stop bitching online and do something. Either do nothing, and stop bitching, or ask her to hang out, and stop bitching. Especially if its someone you really like its going to be akward at first, but if you take the risk theres a good chance youll know her long enough to get past that initial akwardness. Use your balls homie.
Just say "hey, hows it going? " MAybe ask her how she thinks she did on a math test, or say you need some help with an equation, and then ill take off from there. Good luck.
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He isnt bitching about anything. He was asking for advice on how to approach this girl. Lighten up man. On topic. Ask her what kind of music she's into, what movies she likes. Take her to a movie or concert, might be hard at first but its really a breeze. eric
Maaan, this is so crazy. Your story reminds me of how I met my girl. The only thing I can tell you to do is to talk to her on the phone. How long she talks to you is usually a good indicator of how much she digs you. If you have any mutual friends with her, make it a three-way call. After a few days of talking to her say something like "Hey, we like alot of the same stuff. We should hang out some time." then ask to see her that friday at the movies. Also, try to find out if she's into toking. Smoking with someone can be one of the most intimate things a new couple can do together. I hope that helped, bra.
I know she digs me for a fact.. I'm new to the area so I don't know anybody which just adds to the awkwardness. I guess I just need to hang out with her.. but the thing is it would be so weird to just ask her to hang out with me because i don't even know anything about her, and she definitely isn't the kind of girl that smokes.
Shit man, I know exactly how you feel. When you meet a girl that you really like it can be hard to make good conversation or express how you feel. I am the smoothest guy in the world when I'm just chilling w/ friends that I don't want to go anywhere with (and a lot of those girls really dig me). While there is no quick fix, these things have made me better at handling this kind of situation. 1. Watch The Tao of Steve. It's a comedy, but it also has a very true message about chicks. The main point is: Be Desireless (Hard, but it works) 2. Try MDMA. None of that shitty stuff laced w/ meth and caffine, you gotta make sure you get the real shit. Ever since I first tried E I have been so much more open w/ people, smoother around cute girls, etc. 3. Grow some balls. Just kidding about number 3.
just one day, "forget" to pull up your zipper, and walk around with your buddy hanging ...girls always love it when a guy with a flaccid penis walks up and starts to say a few words... on a real note, dude, just walk up, say these three words "dinner? us? tonight?" with a sly smile on your face, and a little extra swagger... or do the first one...maybe even take a few viagras before hand...you may not have ED, but they will make sure she takes notice
Hmm...this reminds of me of this one teen movie I saw befo--...hmm...I say, this sounds like every teen movie ever made in the history of teen movies. Now where was I, ahh yes, I say you just write a note that says "Do you like me? Circle yes or no." Then from there, IF she circles yes, you take her by the hand, make your way to the front of the class, mount her on top of your teacher's desk and well, I'll leave the rest up to you.
How about just real casual conversation.. even about the homework, when I had a crush on this one guy in my chem class back in high school, I purposely got myself into detention so I could talk to him and walk home with him And hey we ended up going out for a long while.
Yeah man, I learned first hand NOT to wait. You should just start up a conversation about anything: Math Weather Anything man, haha. Just play it out in your head before hand if you think you'll be nervous.Those conversations that go nowhere get awkward pretty quick, haha. And you even said she's probally into you!
I disagree about playing it in your head. The more you think about what you're going to say, the more nervous you become, and the stupider you'll sound. Then if the conversation doesnt go the way you 'planned' it, you'll panic, thinking, "shit, what do I say now, this wasnt supposed to happen" eric