I can not truely give the full story but to sum it up.. My girl had a family party saturday and I made the unwise decision to not go and had bascily no excuse. She is very family oriented and didnt seem upest until after she got back. she was saying I only ever care about myself and im very shelfish and its been this way for two years.. and she also menitoned for a second how i never bring her things to surprise her as in she thinks im never thinkin about her. which isnt true and she knows it i felt like it was just a angry moment thing to say. I know she still loves me deep down inside but i have been shelfish multpily times so i kinda agree with her.. i've kinda been a dick to her. i really want her though and i wanna be less shelifsh. my mom has even called me shelfish recently. well my question is? should i go leave a dozen white roses at her door step and say todays the start of a new me? would that be a smart or dumb idea?