[quote name='"BuddhistBrian"']I don't like it... Shit comes out of there! I don't wanna stick my cock in that! Ewww I can't even watch porn if they do any anal in it, I go soft instantly. Watching porn has been getting more difficult over the years.[/quote] Yup i agree..i mean i love bootys but assholes are a turn off
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex with me SO BAD! Like, he pines for it. I told him I'm saving my asshole for marriage. It's all I have left. but to be honest, I'm pretty curious. I give my asshole a couple months tops before I let it happen.
Don't just let him push it in or it will hurt. You need to get used to it. What I would recommend to any girl is just to get a really small butt plug made of a foam or other soft material and keep it in while you have sex. Your BF will like to look at it anyway and it prepares you. Some girls like it because it makes their pussy feel tighter. Or their boyfriends dick feels bigger rather when it rubs the skin between your pussy and ass. An ex told me once she liked it because she didn't have to worry about farting during an orgasm so she could really enjoy them more. Lol. She also began to like anal when she was on her period because she'd get very horny and that feeling of being penetrated while I rubbed her clit was better than just masturbating. Anyway the point is if you are nervous you won't be able to relax and it will hurt. If you are used to the idea of something going in your butt during sex then it isn't a big deal when your boyfriend takes you from behind. Like I said it just puts another option on the table. Most girls if they aren't so self conscious that they feel like a whore for doing it enjoy it to some degree. Not as much as regular sex obviously but more than giving a BJ. It is still a taboo and many more girls enjoy it than will admit it even to their friends. Its just embarrassing to say. They'll admit trying it but usually won't admit enjoying it.
Honestly, I'm a guy and I find vaginas incredibly more attractive than poopholes. Anal just sounds gross to me.
I don't see it that way. The way I look at it, I have an asshole too. I was never attracted to my own asshole or thought about a girls asshole either. I'm strictly a vagina lover. I love a nice big 'ol ass as well. Nothing better than doggystyle but to like a nice ass, it doesn't have to be the asshole. Banging a chick doggystyle in the pink gets me off just fine. Just because I see an ass doesn't ness. mean I want to stick my dick in her stinkhole. So to answer the OP's question. I don't know, and imma dude. I think it's downright disgusting if you would ask me.
Yeah some people jsut wanna try a nice tight asshole. My friend says it'd be tighter than a pussy and he'd do it in a heartbeat
After hearing all of this I don't know if I'm gonna do it now xD I am a little curious though, I have to admit.
One thing I did forget to say is that "shit happens". I do think that is one reason more older women do it than teenage girls. When you've had a relationship and a kid with another person, and you've seen your wifes vagina torn into one big scary hole, then the premise of a fleck of shit on your dick isn't going to ruin the night. But when girls are young and uptight, even the thought of a a lil brown lube is enough to make them gag. If you're going to do anal, unless you are going to give yourself and enema and everything else, than you just have to be adult enough to deal with it. Many girls, and guys for that matter, are not mature enough to just wipe it off and keep going. You have to be really comfortable enough with each other that it just isn't a big deal. Not everybody has a relationship like that. One last tip. Don't go deep. Its only the butt hole that is tight. There is no sense in going deeper than about 3 inches and you won't like what you find any deeper anyway. But usually if you only put the tip in, and are going slow and gentle, you will get a lil brown stained lube at the most. Its when you shove your dick 7 inches up their ass that you might come back out with a turd on the end of it. That is not sexy for anyone. If you are too embarrassed to poop in the same house as your boyfriend. You are probably too early in the relationship to offer up your balloon knot too.
lol. That is why its a bonding moment. Its fun and can be amazing, but its also a weird nasty intimate moment you wouldn't tell people about.
Friend told me anal is overrated. That once you get past the first inch of the anus (the tight muscle) it basically loosens up and its on par with a vagina in terms of tightness. It would seem to me that most girls that don't like it after trying it did not do it right. Not enough lube, not slow enough,etc..basically making it a bad experience so shes turned off by doing anal. When a girl wants to do anal preparation is needed. One of those enemas you get from the pharmacy that you stick up your ass..and not eating for a good 6-8 hours before hand. That eliminates the urge to poop when you're getting slammed in the ass. But yeah, most girls that have tried it and dislike it probably came from the guy just ramming it in there LOL. Heres what my friend said on the subject "and it's only tight right at the... clipping ring area... once you're inside and deep in there it feels looser than a vag common mistakes are too much lube and the girl not being clean imagine fucking a girl in the ass and then getting shit on your dick you won't be able to finish and it could screw up every future bang with this girl knowing that shit came out of their ass last time you fucked after having it once it's not something i'd pursue chances are you're on a forum full of virgins who just want something they've never have the internet overhypes anal sex like it's something so great i guarantee you majority of girls, hot or not, are going to smell when you stick your dick in their ass the smell of shit is something i can not handle while having sex"
Because it's your "special, forbidden place." Your last bastion of privacy. Almost sexy, but undeniably filthier. Ass-fucking is equal opportunity. Guys could all experience it, but maybe most would rather explore the mysteries of ass through you instead. It's a porn thing to cross off the list. It's a form of virginity many girls will still possess long after their vaginal v-card was cashed. He could still consider himself the one to really turn you out. It's somewhat degrading in the moment, somewhat humiliating to admit to afterwards, (except in rare cases) on its own anal will not bring a girl to orgasm, does tend to hurt a bit sometimes, often tends to feel fucking weird, but if she's willing to take on all that to please his cock with a little bit of extra tightness, it's pretty hot. Yea largely a dominance thing.