Alright so here is my story. Last week I smoked with 3 friends. They aren't close friends but they are friends. On Tuesday night they called me up and asked me if I wanted to smoke with them. I said yes and they told me if I can put down 5. I said sure and we hung out and smoked. Before leaving home, the one driving was complaining about having no gas and me being the nice girl I am + I was high + my friend had told me she was going to spark me up on Wednesday since it was my birthday I said "Why not?" and gave her 5 bucks for gas. Okay so that's $10 bucks spent on one day but I had money so whatever. Wednesday comes and they text me at around 12 and tell me they were on the way to my house. She texts me telling me that she was short $5 bucks. Now, it was my birthday and I really wanted to smoke. I had money. So I said "Fuck it" and put down the $5 for my birthday blunt. When they get here I give her the money and we go buy the bud and I notice my friend is really quiet and she usually isn't. I asked her what was up and she said that she was really really high (makes sense because the car reeked). I'm like "okay...how much did you smoke?" and she said "oh we smoked a blunt". When I heard that I was pretty upset. They had smoked right before coming to get me and made me put down 5 bucks for my own birthday blunt because they decided to smoke their own blunt. We finally smoked and whatever and I went home but I wasn't in the best mood. The whole time I was high I was thinking about it and realized everytime I smoked with the 3 of them I had to put $5 and they all "gathered up" $5. So in reality they were only paying $1 or $2 per blunt and I was paying half their high. Am I being greedy though? I usually don't mind putting down. But it's not fair that I have to put down more than everyone. Hell, I wanna be smoking a blunt that I only paid $1 or $2 for. If I don't have $5 they just tell me "oh nevermind" and find someone else. I really feel like I'm being used. Should I just tell them to fuck off next time? They called me Monday asking me to smoke and though I had money I told them no because I had class in the morning. Any advice? *EDIT* I forgot to mention that all 3 of them smoke everyday more than once a day.
Tell them next time that you've got no money, not that you've got class in the morning. Then you'll see if you're being used or not.
fuck no ur not being greedy, that's fucking gay of them, id hate to say it...but id teach em a lesson, next time you have good bud on you, take 30$ worth, and say if you wanna smoke its 5 bucks each, and if they say no...smoke it your self
dude, theyre strait up takin ur money. just buy ur own bag for 5 bucks and fuck them. find some cool ppl to smoke with
That's what I was thinking the entire time I was high. I didn't want to believe so but it makes sense. You have no idea how hard it is to find cool people to smoke with. I had another incident a few months ago where my friend from school sparked me up and then two weeks later left me a message on Facebook asking me for her to pay her $10 for the session. Wtf?
i'd rather blaze myself than get used. (blazing solo is fun anyway) never hang out with anyone that just wants your bud . good luck!
You have to be straight forward with people like that. If you don't establish yourself to these people they will more than likely walk all over you, especially if they smoked a blunt with out you on your birthday. That kinda stuff doesn't fly where I'm from.
being straight forward is the best approach/ if they are using you it will just be a karma moment for you and them. look them in the eyes and you can see if they are guilty. it's important to be on top of your game even if you are generally nice
word dude, word. When you wanna smoke with other people, then in most cases should you use words like "match" and "throw in" before the session even starts. I know there are exceptions with smoking up real homies or true friends who know that when you have bud, you share, and when you don't, you do what you can in the future.
I guess I'm too much of a push over and that's why they call me because they know I always put down $5.
fuck no your not being greedy. if you know that your paying more and theyre taking atvantage of you, theyre no friends of yours
I was the same exact way, but you have to either 1) Put your foot down. 2) Start smoking alone (or at least 1 other person). 3) Suck it up :/ I know putting your foot down seems difficult but a lot of people will use somebody until they know the used, knows they're being used. And not to be a dick or anything, but these people dont sound like to good of friends, IMO.
fuck those bitches, i can understand smoking up your friends and whatnot, but going half with 3 other people.. that isnt right.. you should at least be getting a $20 sack, which would be 2-3 blunts between the 4 of you
fuck those small times smokers....fuckin gatherin up 5 bucks and shit like a fiend. since you obviously have money, buy yourself something nice and smoke blunts to yourself...spark a blunt n then call them to come over, they'll be so pissed to see you burning personal blunts to yourself what a bunch of bitches, show em whos boss
Before I quit I made it a rule to smoke anyone out at least 3 times for free. After that Id ask for you to throw down for at least a 3rd of whatever I paid for what we were smokin. So like if we smoked a gram blunt for $30 throw down $10 The second time they say they have no money I delete their # and if I am with um kick them out of the circle. I always had my own stash so I never relied on anyone for ganj. So I think you need to get your own hook up so you dont have to rely on them. Then when they ask to smoke tell them to throw down or fuck off. Sorry you got used by them it really sux. Anyone that uses others or rips people off for weed isn't a true stoner. They're just posers who don't deserve what they have. Good Luck
Hell yea, I have had similar experiences to you back when I was dealing. I know some people only like to smoke socially..But go buy yourself a sack, roll up a dank blunt..and smoke it all. Finding new people to smoke with can be tough (I have had the same problem) but I always looked at it like...I would much rather smoke by myself than these people who are just using me to get their fix...Doesn't seem like the kind of people you want to surround yourself with anyways.. I also completely agree with the poster above me...When i smoke with my friends or even just other people..everyone throws $5 or contributes $5 worth of weed...If youre broke...sucks! Unless you are trusted enough and say you will pay me back or smoke me up in the *very short near* future
ur gettin used, find a cool connect and blaze headies, ask them if they wanna puff, and have them come over and make them pay. ahah! or punch them in the eye