Advice?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by ripitbruh, Jan 27, 2011.

  1. #1 ripitbruh, Jan 27, 2011
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    Let me start by saying im a junior in college.
    This summer i was in europe for a study abroad and met a great girl.
    We got close, not friend zone close though, but i never made a move because i knew she had a boyfriend, even though in hindsight I can see that she definitely wanted me to. i know...I'm "the nice guy". I told her I'd keep in touch but have never gathered up enough courage. I want to send her a message online but really have no idea what to say.
    I don't have her number, online is the only way I can get in touch with her and we live in different states.
    What's a good way to initiate contact with her? What would you say to her?
    I haven't talked to seen her since July 2010.
     
  2. #2 chronicsmokeyaz, Jan 27, 2011
    if i had a dollar for each thread to do with a girl that has a bf on GC i would be rich lol, well are you asking if you should contact her thru email? idk bro if she still has a bf and your willing to except the fact you might get rejected then go for it. Just dont set your self up to get hurt for no reason.
     
  3. #3 infinityplus1, Jan 27, 2011
    I'm going to take a guess and say that you go to school with this girl?? You didn't clarify that. If she goes to your school then I would just send her a friendly message along the lines of "I was just thinking about last summer and how amazing it was. I hope you are doing well and having a great semester!"
    And just see where it goes from there.
     
  4. #4 ripitbruh, Jan 27, 2011
    haha. Let's just say that their not very close. She's said that she's looking for someone better. I'm realistic enough to be looking for a fairytale ending, just for a good way to reach out to her

    We went to school together just for that summer in europe, we go to different schools in the states.
    That was where we met.
     
  5. #5 infinityplus1, Jan 27, 2011
    Still works then. There's nothing wrong with sending a friendly message.
     
  6. #6 BreathingxFire, Jan 27, 2011
    just facebook her or something and start talking to her again and show your interst. get her phone number and call her spend a weekend visting her just do everything you can to express your feelings and if she feels the same way she will reciprocate
     
  7. #7 smoke blunts, Jan 27, 2011
    dude just hit her up on fb and be like whats up man, long time. if she had half the interest you say she did, it won't just disappear after six months
     

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