So here i go. I had just got back to college, and after 3months i wasn't looking for anything serious. Saw this girl who used to be in a old college class (dropped out due to depression) and we started chatting. After just a simple walk, found out that we had so much in common. I like talking about all kinds of shit, which most people don't give a fuck about. But this girl was different, and after hanging out some more we totally hit it off. So after only about 2 weeks, i thought things were going great. We got on so well it was unreal. I knew she was bi and all, and that really didn't bother me. So then after a month, she tells me we need to talk. Which i know is going to be bad. She tells me that she thinks she is full on lesbian, and we break up. Unlike most relationships, we remain great friends and always hang out. Now im still totally head over heels in love with this girl, she's the only person that i can talk to, and i just feel such a connection with her. Im just not sure what to do though, she tells me she's confused herself about her sexuality. So what the fuck do i do?! Tell her how much i fucking love her and see if we hit it off again ? Or just "suffer in silence" as they say. Help Sorry for the long ass read blades, pretty high
Well you believe that you share a connection you should tell her how you feel, but also don't try to push it into a relationship. If she is confused about things, let her know you're there to talk to. Just listen to her, let her speak to you. If she also believes you have a connection, she will confide in you. The only thing to worry about is try not to take it too much into the best friends zone, otherwise you may become nothing more than that! Hope it helps, even though it's not much >.<