I apologize in advance, just realized it's kinda lengthy. So i just got out of a 3 and a half year relationship, she left me a week ago (I posted about it exactly a week ago), and I've been having one of the worst weeks of my life (aside from my brother passing away 7 years ago). My friends made me go out with them to an 18+ club on Thursday night, even though I didn't really feel like going. We drank before, and I was feeling pretty loose when we got there, but I didn't think I had any chance at dancing with the girls there (most of them unattractive), the ratio was like 5 guys to 1 girl, and it was my first time there. Not really my kind of place or lifestyle either. Right when we enter, we use the restroom and upon coming out, my friend sees a girl he knows, and she has a friend. They start dancing, so her friend grabs me and we start dancing. I'm really picky about girls that I find attractive, but this girl was really pretty, had a gorgeous body too. We danced for an hour straight, and then we all took a break because it was really hot. We're chit chatting in the outside area, and I'm doing everything I need to do, making eye contact, being assertive, even cracking jokes at times. I was reading her body language all night, she was constantly fidgeting her hair, was nervous to talk, and I even caught her eye-fucking me once. We keep talking, and I ask her if she has a boyfriend, she says yes (I checked it out on fb, been dating for a month). He's out of town though, all summer. I thought this was a deal-breaker, so I was back to square one. Until she asks if I wanted to dance again. Fast forward to the next day, I find her on facebook, add her. Today she writes me with "Hey, what are you doing tonight? " and long story short, wanted to meet up and have drinks. I had to respectfully decline for tonight, being that she has a boyfriend, but then she said that her friend's parents are out of town tuesday and she wants me to go over. I said I would, but i don't know if this is the best idea. I don't even know how I feel about it. I mean, she has a boyfriend, and the group of friends she hangs out with are all some of the biggest sluts, my friends have gotten with all of them but her, and my friend insists she is different. He says she's only had two serious boyfriends, the guy she's with, and some other guy she dated in high school. Idk if I can believe this, they said they go clubbing at that place every Thursday night. Does she not even care about her bf? What do you guys think about me going if she invites me? I am no where even near over my ex yet, it's been a week. Although she was the best distraction that night, and I felt the joy of being single with her. She's gotten my mind off of my ex today too, I just don't want to have my feelings messed with by a girl in that category, if you know what I mean. I don't have any plans on getting back with my ex, so I don't care what she would think if she found out. Any advice?