i am 18 years old goin out with a fabulous woman of 23 years old. were together now about 3 months and get on like a house on fire. everything is rosey except the relationship between herself and her boss. she works in a cafe and a couple own the cafe which she works in. the couple that own it are together 6 years and married. there a young couple expecting a child in 6 weeks. now ur man that owns it has the hots for my missus which is fair enuf but what i cant understand is why? my missus is a very fun loving person and loves hugging people and all and he knows that and whenever there together hes always huggin her and kissin her on the cheek and all. i confront her about this and say stop huggin him and all cos it just annoys me and all. she fights with me and says i dont trust her but i actually do 100% like but i dont like that prick huggin her and all when i no how he feels. he told her about 2 months ago that he loved her but she didnt reply cos she loves me and all blah blah blah but the cheek of that dope to cause all this shit and if it was anyone else id kick the shit out of em but i cant say fk all the same as herself because he is her boss. tell me blades am i being over protective or paranoid or am i right or what because i dont really wanna ask too many people bout this but atleast i can get the opinions of people who arent involved in the situation. no smart comments please just gimme ur opinions and see what ya make of it all. thanks in advance blades
Nah you're definitely right. Shes being an inconciderate prick. Who knows, she probably fucked him. I wouldnt doubt it. How do you know he kisses her on the cheek? He does that shit in front of you? Maybe you should tell him a thing or two, but that might piss her off a bit (even though it shouldnt matter to her) I dont know what to do here. Just act like you dont care anymore as best as you can and hope for the best. Let her sincerely know that it really bugs you and its very uncomfortable. Its gotta be a sincere tone though so you dont come off as a jealous boyfriend. If she doesnt understand then shes not really worth it
i am a similar person to you, im a very jealous person + my dad was like that about my mom too i recently asked my dad if i should let my g/f go out and not keep texting her? he said son it took me 49 years to learn that the more you try and stop a girl the more they try to do it. you gotta show her you care about her and act like that dude isnt even a threat ( which btw if she ever gets sacked she can say motherfucker ill tell your wife ) good luck dude, try to show the guy he is not a threat to you either, dont act worried, act like he is a joke ( he will soon say he fucked ur g/f if he really did and your treating him like a joke ) i do agree with the guy above though, you must lay down the law early if she is messing with him, if he is the procrastinator leave it alone, but if your g/f is starting it please dont be a wimp and just tell her you dont like it, would she like it if you did that? and say if there is any more your gone, but dont say anything you wont stick to once a girl sees she can take advantage, she will
You're jealous, and that's fine because I think it shows how much you care. Why not level the playing field, though? If you've ever felt the urge to be as touchy-feely with girl friends outside of your relationship, you now have sort of a probable cause. I know it sounds petty, but it beats the hell out of picking a fight with your girls boss and getting her fired.
thanks for the opinions guys. she didnt fk him or anythin and i no she wouldnt but ur man is actin a prick. just wanted to know was i right to be pissed off. ill sort out this situation and things will be grand. just pisses me off at times cos if it was anyone else id have em sorted but my hands are tied here
Listen man getting pissed off at her is only gonna drive her away.. The fact that you're much younger than her might even make that happen sooner. But if you like dating pretty girls you're gonna have to get used to it. Guys will constantly be hitting on her, I bet it happens all the time when you aren't around. If you say you trust her, there's really no reason to say anything. Trust me bro, I had an older hot chick when I was your age too. She was in a sorority and was always at fucking frat parties getting hit on by dipshit frat boys and it would piss me off. She finally had enough of my bitching and broke up with me lol so let it be man, play it cool. If you're confident in yourself and confident in her, she ain't going anywhere.