now my good friend jim invites over this real real attractive girl. for some reason she ignored my friend and was just tlakign to me giving me some nice looks. So me being nice seeing she is just kind of a hook up asked my friend jim if its cool if i go for her and he was like no. She gives me her number and we text as soon as she leaves, while jim was there and she wants to hang out tomorrow (saturday). Now i aint one to fuck over one of my boys but he did somethng similar when he dated my cousin. i told him ahead of time to not even talk to my cousin when i had a party and he ended up dating her for 2 years, but lied to me for like am onth while they were just hooking up. So guys... do i have every right to try and just get with this girl? cuz even tho he did it to me and i remembered how mad it got me, i dont know if its the right hting to do. to make osmeone as mad as i was. And i m real sorry i took a few xanny bars and drank and burned mad so i hope this makes semi sense and ur advice wil be great.
Well... depends how good of a friend you have. If he's a good friend, then don't do it. But if you have no respect and no love for him... do it. Enjoy it, and then lie about it. That's pretty much all there is to it. It's true, he fucked up, but if he's your boy you can show him respect, and be the bigger man. Ultimately it's up to you. There's no right or wrong choice. Just a decision, which decides what kind of person you want to be.
sounds like your buddies greedy. hit up this chick and get it on. as long as its not his steady girl theres no disrespect.
Yeah, he seems greedy as hell to me. If I were you I'd go after that chick unless your friend is your real friend, not just a fake. And remember he did the same to you.... Hard choice and is ultimately up to you to make my friend. Good luck.
i would do it, it aint ur fault that you got better looks n more game than his ass haha, besides u could bust out the cousin thing n he'd have nothin else to say or else he'd be a hypocrit for tellin u u cant do it
If he was that good a friend, he would have let you have her, anyway. Seems like he's, 'if I can't have her nobody can', which is more than a bit childish. I say, fuck him. Go out with her.
Why do I think you would laugh if I asked if you cared about her? She has no qualms about playing your buddy for the fool, and I suspect he is in it for the grinding himself. If you have no desire for anything more meaningfull than a romp, then fill your boots.
^ i agree - it doesn't sound like they had some kind of deep connection. even if u and her bcame an item - if he's a good friend and not an idiot he'd prob realize there wouldn't have been a point in u not talking to her. if she's not into him - she just isn't. but if she's only into him if ur not into her - she's just looking for some ass. (not that there's anything wrong w/that)
looks like the popular consenus is tap that ass... your bro will forgive you or he wont... either way cant be hanging with haters (tell your boy to grow up and get on with it) if someone does dig you they dont dig you.... its going to happen
If she has no interest in him, why would he not want you to get with her if you could? Is he expecting her to change her mind?
man fuck what your friend thinks. If you like her and she is interested in you, then go for it. Your friend should be down for it and not such a jealous dude. He just needs to man up and go look for someone else. If she likes you, it would have never worked out for him anyways.
"it ain't no fun if the homies can't have none.." haha nah i'm just playin, but seriously man if your boy isn't willing to give up a girl who ISN'T even his, he has some issues that should be dealt with. tell him to be a man and realize she ain't feelin the kid. it's as simple as that, tell him to stop trying to be superman, she ain't tryin to be saved.... ROFL
i mean who is he to tell u who you can and cannot talk to, its not like they're going out... come on man do ya thing... and if hes a real friend he'll just get over it and not be a middle schooler about it.
If you said he ignored your warning and dated your cousin and then dumped her in 2 weeks, I'd say go for it - but he dated her for 2 years, which to me means they really liked each other (rather then being in it for a fuck now and again). If he's a good friend I don't think I'd do it - and to her for making a play at someone else while with another guy. Thats trashy. K
That saying has become oddly cliche'd... I am unsure if that's what you were trying to portray with capitalizing the words. Atanyrate, I reccomend you find somewhat of a meeting point between you and your buddy. By and large, all situations such as this are caused by a minute case of oppositional disorder on the opposing party's leader. Case in point, your friend. You just have to talk with him and say, 'Hey, just because she came to me instead of you doesn't exactly give you the right to act a fool.' or something along those pretenses. Most people that do this are drama junkies that are fishing for an argument; in public, preferrably. This whole situation, when pursued, only works to your disadvantage. You start seeing the girl, he becomes violent, you lose a friend, and possibly the girl. You choose not to see her, you may still have your friend, but you lost an oppurtunity with a girl that could have formed something of substance. So, the best thing you can do is assert your authority in the situation, in regards to your friend. Gooooooood luck.