So I was sitting here thinkin' of a few questions i had for gc and while i was waiting for the page to load (im threading internet from my cell phone so its a little slow) i went and changed into my jamies and came back and now i have NO idea what i was going to ask....Wow i didn't think i was THAT high...so i gotta think for a min. Ha! Ok i remember one of them (5 min later lol) My botfriend told be a while back when we first got together that it really turns him on when I tell him im about to cum. But i am not sure how to go about telling him or even what to say idk.... And also i have a few lil thinks that drive me crazy in a good way. Like kissing my neck, squeezing my hip bones and a few more....How should i go about asking him to do those things why were going at it? Thanks guys.
"I'm about to cum!!" is fine. And whenever he does those things you love, just whisper "oh hell yea" or sumthin positive like that.
In a true relationship shouldn't you be able to tell your partner anything? Just tell him you own likes / dislikes. Knowledge is power. Once he knows what you like and what you don't like, he will (if he's worth a shit) make sure he does those things.
I don't think she meant they have communication issues, I think that she just doesn't know how/when to bring it up. Which is really understandable. I'm not even high and I'm thinking crazy stuff. Sex goes by the Golden Rule, "Do unto others as you would have done unto you"... or something like that. Meaning, if you didn't like your neck kissed, you wouldn't kiss his right? It works the other way around, too. The most subtle way to show someone what you like (in my opinion) is by doing it to them and hoping they'll realize it's really hot and reciprocate. My boyfriend usually catches on to this, so I can't really tell you what to do if this fails, but I hope I helped
This does seem like a good idea. But he knows that my hip bones are super tickelish im just not sure the he realizes that it turns me on like crazy. So i believe this i something I have to tell him flat out. Kinda like yesterday we were talking on the phone then we got off and i text him "We should have sex in a hot tub or pool one day." And then he brought it up when he called me a little later.
"Oh baby, oh ... Im gonna cummm! ..." < purrr'fect. and u could just tell him, start a convo about what turns him on, and what turns u on. and just tell him, he'll be glad u said it. something like, "Well.. It would really get me wet if kissed my neck passionatly" or, "It REALLY turns me on if u would .. squeeze my hip when were busy.. " that oughta do the trick JUST fine babes.
