For a lot of guys it's much more than just meditating. Years of improper jerking off and kegals cannot be fixed with a few minutes of meditation each day. Reasons for premature ejaculation vary, but yours was likely due to some sort of stress as the meditating seemed to help you a lot. My pre-e as well as the majority of others is due to an imbalanced pelvic floor causing involuntarily kegal and an overly sensitive head. Still some great info, and though I don't have pre-e anymore I'll try it out as I am intrigued. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Hi, does anyone know, if stealthgrower was talking about Absorption Through Concentration, that have helped him? ... Or where can I contact him? Thank you and good luck.
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lol i mean dudes are always looking for over the top solutions for this. its quite simple. if you feel like youre about to cum and you dont want to, just stop fucking for a minute then continue. just tell yo girl that her pussy too good and you need to take a second. or you can switch up positions to buy time. or you can take your dick out and randomly go down on her. fuck doing yoga and meditating and all that shit. lol
On my unborn children's life, I've never had an issue myself. Sure, I've had to pace myself a bunch of times to make it last but when I wanted to make it last, goddamnit I made it last! Having said all that, I don't consider it "premature" at all. If the dude wants to bust there and then, the dude wants to bust there and then. Maybe that's just the time and space sex occupies in his brain. Once he fires, he's good to move on with his life. I'm in better shape than most people my height and weight, both cardio and strength and I don't get this whole "couldn't last/wouldn't last" talk regarding how long it takes for a dude to go off. If he felt like going off at the 1 minute mark then that's his bio clock. Chances are he got to get laid twice in his life so it's still a big deal to his system. Why crucify these guys for it? Whatever happened to "just be yourself" ? Having said all of that....condoms, condoms, condoms. While I consider them an absolute necessity with new encounters, they are absolute sensation killers for me. I mean, it's still ok, but nothing like going without. Any dude with 4 beers in him and a rubber on who busts too quickly has mental issues about sex. It is far too big of a deal for you. I'll eat a lot of folks' my size lunch in the gym but you couldn't pay me to make me fire off quickly on booze and rubber.
OK so I have had the exact opposite effect. I used to last a normal, perfect amount of time, sometimes wishing I could go longer. Never once did it take too long in 50 years of my life. Then I got divorced and have been plagued with delayed ejaculation, taking too long or not at all. It has gotten better but I would LOVE to be a minute man. Can you please PM me so I can find out more about how you meditated and learn about moving the energy, I absolutely feel like energy is blocked there.