Alright, so here goes. My girlfriend(C) is friends with this guy(S) she knew in highschool, hes in Iraq right now and she talks to him on myspace sometimes. Well, I went to highschool with his girlfriend (A), didn't ever really talk to her, but we were aware of each other. Neither me or C knows they're dating. I have alot of people over at my house usually, especially on weekends. A good buddy of mine(KD) was here, and says some girls about to come over and hes gonna get some, and asks if he can use my bed(WHAT!?!) I tell him hes crazy, and to just go out to her car or something. Well, A walks in my room a little while later, and I wasn't even really sure who it was, I havn't seen her since highschool, I'm drunk, and shes changed. They sit inside for just a couple minutes, then leave. I didn't think too much of it, he came back inside an hour or so later and that was that. So, the next day I'm burning a blunt, bullshiting around on here and myspace. I'm on KD's myspace, listening to his playlist. I see A left him a comment and don't think too much of it, but I hadn't seen her in forever(or so I thought) so I went to her page, and see S is on her top. Whatever, that's cool. I think its funny we both knew them in highschool, so I tell C. Next time I see KD, I ask him how he knows A. He stats laughing and tells me that thats the girl that came over the other night and gave him head. Uh oh. A is still texting him, and I ask him if he knows she has a boyfriend. He doesn't, says the bitch is talking to him about a relationship and such. He asks her who S is, and she says its "her ex fiance, when he gets back from Iraq they're going to get back together"...right. As I said before, C talks to S online sometimes, and as far as he knows him and A are still together and everything is good. C tells S, which is what I would have done, and he doesn't believe her. Tells her "she and her friends should stop feeding him bullshit or hes going to have to handle this his way. Don't test me" Lawls. I simply say "threats are lame, and don't work. If you don't care about your girl giving out blowjobs to guys she met a week ago, neither do I " I'd do cliffnotes, but they wouldn't make any sence. >_> Anyways, was telling him the right thing? I usually keep my nose out of other peoples business, but this wasn't a maybe, its a definate, and I KNOW I'd want somebody to tell me something like that. Keep blazing
i do believve telling was the good thing but ur timing was wack. Right now hes at war he didnt need this on his mind at a time like this. It could make him do something dumb or careless. i would have waited till he was back over here and been more subtile about it. But depending on how much she meant to him and how he deals with it just depends on the kind of person he is.
When I say he's in iraq, I was really just guessing, I just know hes in the military. I just asked my girl, he's stationed in italy right now(which makes alot of sence seeing as how much he's online). Meaning he could be getting all kinds of pussy over there instead of being tied down to an unfaithful woman.