so my best friend in the world just calls me up and hes like: yo! and im like wassup man, and hes like nothin, chilin in my car im like why are you in your car, and hes like ya, ive just been real upset, ive been crying in my car cause i needed privacy. i told him to come over to my place so we can talk, but man, i love this kid, i hope hes ok he sounded real upset, i hope he didnt break up with his girl and i know hes been havin real doubts about what hes doin in school and all that. damn, i hate it when people are upset. well, gotta go do my duty as his friend, over come the dry spel were having, get some buddah and help him with his issues.
At least hes got a good friend who cares. People like you seem harder and harder to come by these days.
except me. I've been havign real trouble with my BFF , lol jp, but he's tried to kill himself twice already, and he's starting to scare me, i have no idea what to do...
yea so i talked to my buddy and hes thinking about tranfering schools hes by best friend here, and hes really unhapy in the business school and his relationship with his girl isnt working out cause she has no friends and fuckin gets on his back all the time cause he doesnt spend every minute with her. its real shitty, i hope he doesnt leave. i bought a g today, and i smoked some, but im gonna save it til later when he gets of work duty at his frat, and ill drive over and blaze him up cause i know hes dry.
Its crazy ya'll can talk like that. I mean i got a homie or two i can be like shit man shits fucked up, I cant get no work blah blah im stressed i dont know what to do. But dude aient gon be all worried and shit and sure as hell aient no one crying or nuttin. But thas tight tho, Only person i can really open up to is my girl but when i get deep in it even she thinks it aient cool.
lol its not like we sit around and fuckin have girl out sessions full of crying and chocolate binges, hes just a real sensative kid, he always tells me how he has fights with his girl and they both cry and shit, and i mean thats totally cool. but i just try and be there for him cause she gives him a lot of shit, and i know what its like to hate the place your at and having to follow a stupid path set out for you by someone else. i dont mind people opening up to me or likewise. i mean shit, ill tell anyone stuff from my past, i dont really keep secrets. i just feel bad for the kid, hes in a frat and just got his ps2 stolen and all his shit fucked with. its totally not his scene and hes sort of realizing it now. kinda shitty
I hear ya. But on the real if i told my homie i was crying id prolly get punched. But thas tight tho like i said, I can respect that. I feel ya on the last paragraph aswell, I tell shit from my past, I dont trip. Ive done alot of fucked up shit and learned from it and i try to have other people learn from my mistakes.
Wow, thats the same exact shit i was thinking. My girl is hood as fuck, if i started on some crying shit she'd lose respect for me probably.
The weird thing is, My girl aient from the hood, Far from it. From the 'lower/middle class' middle class burbs. She aient rich, But she aient poor. She aient never dealt with shit ive have. But shes seen shit and been through shit, And ive opened her eyes alot. But if i get on that tip she'll cut me off and jus say shut the fuck up, Your supposed to be a man, Your supposed to protect me not be worried ya know. So it gets hard, All my shits all bottled up and no one listens and no one i trust enough to listen. Ive came out to her a couple times and she honestly gets pissed at me and it just makes it worse. Its like look all ive been through. Shit, A few weeks ago i lost 3 friends in 3 days in a row, One each day, Among MUCH other shit. I jus fuckin broke down. She got pissed at me.
haha yea, most people get shunned on for cryin, but sometimes shit just happens and that how you let it out. i dont cry at all really, but i dont care if a homie wants somoene to talk to, im sure hed do the same. my girl used to cry all the damn time, and i know thats strait for girls and all, but fuck, she cried ALL the damn time. like one time i told her that this little girl in some dumb movie i saw reminded me of her... flash forward a year, she sees the movie and calls me up crying cause the girl was some little 9 year old who may have been a little chubby in that particular movie, but i was talking facial features, and she just took that shit way over the line you know.
my girl hates when people cry for some reason, like if i were to cry she'd start crying too and then jus get pissed. She's weird like that.
Damn dude, if my girl got pissed at me for mourning the loss of 3 of my friends in 3 days, I would flip off the fuckin handle.
I mean, Thas my baby mama, I do anything for her and my daughter. But she jus dont want me to not be a G at anytime. I mean shit men jus cant be hard 24/7 no matter whatcha thank. The hardest of men break down behind doors, Thas real talk.
My girlfriend doesn't care if I cry over something meaningful. Her ex boyfriend use to cry all the time for no reason and she got really annoyed with him. It is nice to be able to open up when I am stressed out and things aren't going right. She is good to me.
funny story to lighten the mood a lil... the other day i just got out of my "music of jimi hendrix" lecture, and i smoked a roor and was high as hell. i was listening to some jimi live and i was just bein real stoned thinking about how sad it is that he died and i felt like crying then realized i was just really high and a total idiot.
Nothing wrong with crying, everyone gets overwhelmed with emotion from time to time. Personally, if someone got pissed at me for crying or called me a pussy - I'd probably beat the living shit out of them. Now - you can take it TOO far and be a crybaby, but if some serious shit happens in your life then you gotta let it out somehow. Otherwise, it would just get built up and you would hold it inside and explode one day and that's pretty unhealthy.
Crying actually makes people feel better. It's an intense release of emotions. Being a ridiculous crybaby and being sensitive are two different things. I almost kinda feel bad for people who don't have a shoulder to cry on.
