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Lol, ok. That wouldn't help me check in on the dog or help protect my house much. I was considering adding an alarm system as well. Or wait..........
You're right. We are figuring that out. He just started seeing a counselor for his anxiety and hopefully if anything else is affecting him,...
Because you guys might be able to relate more than I can and help me to see a different perspective. Is that so bad? You aren't forced to respond...
I didn't have the mentality of "move out right at 18" --- this move was discussed nearly 1 year ago. He doesn't like this town and wants to move....
Call it what you like. I check it for various reasons, most of which have nothing to do with him. It's my house. It's been there, in the same...
Ye Yes I do wonder about that too. He does have some anxiety issues, some sleep & back problems, so I can see him justifying why he smokes. I...
I am looking forward to this stage in my life. It's not just about HIM and how he is now an adult and can live his own life. It's a new start for...
Regarding the bolded above, I like the idea but it's too much for me to attempt to implement. It would be easier for me to just tell him (for the...
I really think about saying just this. He only turned 18 two months ago and already I am itching for him to be out because of this behavior. A few...
I make him contribute to his car insurance. I do NOT give him gas money either. I was thinking about charging him some rent. That might push him...
.....have me really stressed out. I just want some feedback because perhaps I am overanalyzing or overreacting. The last several months my 18 year...
LET.... now there's an assumption. I never "let" him smoke pot, but I did find it near impossible to PREVENT him from smoking on occasion. You...
I have been thinking about this post in particular since I read it a day or so. I have been wanting to respond but just have not had a good, quiet...
Yes, they do. I got one at 22 and it SUCKED. Losing the freedom to drive is the absolute worst. It's expensive, it's humiliating... I wish he...
I really appreciate all your guys' responses. I have heard that some departments have trained drug recognition expert's who can tell on scene if...
Very true. Is he stoned though? That is the burning question. Hey, a pun.... look I fit right in here. Sure I know he smokes pot. I also know...
In my eyes as well. In my opinion (as unknowledgeable as it may be) it is safer to not drive stoned. Obviously right? A sober driver is safer than...
Yes I could do that, but it would be extreme. He should be moving out soon anyway, at last that is the plan. As far as calling the cops on him,...
Thank you. I think once he moves out I will be much more at ease with all this because it won't be right under my nose. Until then I will keep...
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