I emailed him yesterday -- three days after our breakup -- because my emotions about the situation had finally surfaced, and I wanted to try and win him over. I asked him for another chance and promised to never write about our relationship again, and that I wouldn't write about my personal life so publicly anymore, and would instead focus on publishing my book. I also told him that I didn't consider his feelings when I talked about other guys hitting on me, and I would never do that to hurt him.
We ended up talking on the phone for an hour, and today, he texted me to ask me how I was feeling, and to tell me he missed me. Then he invited me to come Christmas shopping with him at the mall for presents to give to his family. He said we could walk and talk together. Our relationship is pretty new, so I've never done anything like this with him before. I'm really excited. Especially because we had such a good talk, and everything seems like it's going to be okay?
But then today, someone sent me an anonymous comment saying, "Lol, [your boyfriend] is involved with a a certain brunette with pretty eyes." And it seriously freaked me out. I know that a few of his friends read my writing online, so I'm worried that maybe one of them sent it? But at the same time, a lot of anonymous readers read my stuff all the time and send in rude comments on a regular basis.
The point is, I'm scared and I don't want to accuse him of being involved with someone else. How should I handle this? I meet him at the mall later today in around 4 hours or so -- I held back the urge to text him right now because I didn't think it would be healthy to confront him like that. I figure I should do it in person and ask while we're one-on-one?
What should I do?
Has he been involved with someone else?
Why do people try to ruin happiness like this?
I'm scared. Please help. I really care for him, but now I don't know what to think.
Edited by Pinkchu, 21 December 2011 - 10:20 PM.