But really lady's you want somebody who's blunt and cares about what you think but doesn't act like it.. Break it down for us.. I know some girls that I know I can walk up behind say "hey there you pretty little bitch" *smack her on the ass* then she's down to fuck. I know for a fact if I walked up and said "hello their you're pretty" it would never end in the same fashion. I meet a lot of guy's that are confused and don't know how to pick up women and it seems that most of them are working with the same formula... So what the fuck do you want girls? (there will be several different responses to this question)... Primarily due to the fact that none of you girls has a god damn clue of what the fuck it is you're looking for. I mean that in the nicest way possible, you girls are quite indecisive.. We still love you none the less.
i hate that shit when i go on facebook and i see stauses like all guys are assholes or liers or theres no good guys. that shit pisses me off cause im a nice guy lol
Being confident and being an ass hole are two different ball games. At the same time, being kind and genuine is totally different from being a spineless pussy. Bitches get your shit straight.
This concept is really simple but for some reason men seem to always get it backwards. Okay here it is: Every woman likes her good boy and her bad boy, they are two fantasies. When you meet a sexually/emotionally mature woman she will probably have already had her bad boy relationship and gotten out of it for the better, and usually those relationships don't go well. You men see those Bad boys getting the girls but you don't see the restraining orders that are filed against them two years later and the stumpy sweet lawyer the woman is with now. Here's the thing: Immature women want the bad boy and mature women want the nice guy. I was with my bad boy and I loved him desperately, after he hit me I was done with the bad boys and finally met my nice guy who, like many guys out there, had always seen the girls go off with the bad boys and always thought nice guys finish last. And that's what's important nice guys will get the girl in the end, if you are a immature guy going after immature girls and you want to be the bad boy you will get the girl and then get the restraining order, if you are a nice guy you can be our hero, our prince, our knight in shining armor, we want to run toward the guy not have to run away from him. We want our prince, and prince charming never slapped us on the ass and called us Bitch...grow up and be a nice charming man
[quote name='"BananaPants"'] Being confident and being an ass hole are two different ball games. At the same time, being kind and genuine is totally different from being a spineless pussy. Bitches get your shit straight. [/quote] This. This this..X this and always this haha. Right, assholes suck. Don't be an asshole, unless you want shitty relationships with shallow girls. My boyfriend is a totaly sweetheart, but he is is also honest and confident. He knows how to throw me around in the bedroom, but he also knows how to be kind, compassionate and caring. I've got the best, he is a totally teddy bear but he's big and covered in tattoos so he looks bad (he probably thinks he is lol..but he is seriously a giant teddy bear) I like real men, not immature asshole boys.
[quote name='"sweetbudz"']This concept is really simple but for some reason men seem to always get it backwards. Okay here it is: Every woman likes her good boy and her bad boy, they are two fantasies. When you meet a sexually/emotionally mature woman she will probably have already had her bad boy relationship and gotten out of it for the better, and usually those relationships don't go well. You men see those Bad boys getting the girls but you don't see the restraining orders that are filed against them two years later and the stumpy sweet lawyer the woman is with now. Here's the thing: Immature women want the bad boy and mature women want the nice guy. I was with my bad boy and I loved him desperately, after he hit me I was done with the bad boys and finally met my nice guy who, like many guys out there, had always seen the girls go off with the bad boys and always thought nice guys finish last. And that's what's important nice guys will get the girl in the end, if you are a immature guy going after immature girls and you want to be the bad boy you will get the girl and then get the restraining order, if you are a nice guy you can be our hero, our prince, our knight in shining armor, we want to run toward the guy not have to run away from him. We want our prince, and prince charming never slapped us on the ass and called us Bitch...grow up and be a nice charming man[/quote] Spokennnn for the truth! That's why I love my man, he looks like a bad boy but he is a softee haha! I win But that's what happened with me, my last boyfriend was a total dick. Put his hands on me never looked back.
Girls are attracted to confidence for sure... BananaPants confidence and being and asshole are two different things of course but this is where "confidence" and "Cockyness" comes into play. There is def. a difference but it's hard to draw the line in between the two.
IT DEPENDS ON YOUR CHOICE OF FEMALE. you wanta pretty girl thats insecure and needs forthrightness to con validate her looks she spent all night on, sure-- dick moves are right for you. if you want a hot female, look, she already gets attention, "You're pretty" isnt what she needs, its "How the fucking hell are you feeling" is what she needs to hear. she needs a different kind of caring. this is pure truth. you want the hot one? good luck, you're going to have to deny your superficial attraction. with a mediocre - ugly one, you're going to have to listen to her like a friend, but still. girls are wired differently than guys. listen.
my girlfriend (ex-girlfriend) of 9 months jus broke up with me a few weeks ago. i was/am crushed because she was someone i could really see having a future with n she said she could too. anyway i was really good while we were at school together. i bought her food and put it in my fridge or freezer. i let her keep clothes in my room. i bought her clothes n even gave her some of mine. i smoked soooo much of my weed with her n even bought here and her friends alcohol so she could go to a party which she didnt even ask me if i wanted to go with her. i wont even talk about the things i did for her in bed lol, basically i treated her like i feel a gf is supposed to be treated. after that im tired of being "the nice guy." i really dont understand how you can wanna give that up. like someone said in an earlier post i guess she was jus immature... p.s. FUCK YOU STAR!!!!
I agree with this. Not to sound like a douche but I've been pulling dime piece women for awhile now. Every hot girl hears the same bull shit from every guy in the building.. It's what you're going to say that is going to differentiate you from the pack in her mind.. Atleast that's my theory on the subject.. The same strategy can be applied when pulling strippers to but in a different more disrespectful manner it seems. EDIT: The only part of your post I have to disagree with is having to listen to her like a friend. Maybe for a little bit but you can generate generic responses for all of that crap you have to listen to. DO you know how much generic bullshit crap us guys have to listen to from every single girl we talk to? You can def. take a different route if you're not up for listening to all of that shit you dont care about.
You have no idea what the fuck you are talking about. Sure the ass hole gets the hot one... If your idea of "the hot one" is the fake blonde hair, leather skin, and "giggle giggle giggle you are soooo funny buy me a purse!" bitch. If that is your idea of the hot girl, by all means, be a douche bag. Tap that STD ass till the sun don't shine... But when you want a REAL girl; be a man. You have two emotions mixed up; love and lust. If you lust after a girl, walk up and smack her on the ass, disrespect her and get in her pants. I bet it won't last long. If you want to love a girl, be a gentleman. Love her sweetly and without end. Pay attention to her, be the most caring man on the earth. I think all women will agree with me on this one too. Why can't all people be real and genuine? This misconception on what makes a good relationship (fuck, even a lifestyle) created by Jersey Shore and The Real World is so disgusting and volatile, true humanity is being lost by the day. /rant
Not to be disrespectful, but you sound like a fucking douche. You little boys need to learn how to really treat a woman... And if the woman you are chasing prefer to hear "Hey bitch, suck my dick" you need to learn what a real woman and real relationship is like... --That is pretty disrespectful--
It comes down to this I like being treated like a princess during the day, dirty whore by night pretty simple
What is funny I used to play like I was a nice guy and the only thing I got that were interested in me was strippers... When I be myself I have to beat the women off me. I was picky and it payed off. I got a lady that is just like me... A total asshole. We get along like money and drug dealers..