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Tips for Starting Conversations?

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So I'm pretty awkward... and I have no idea how to just start a conversation with someone. But there's this girl I like and I've wanted to say something to her for a while and I was thinking maybe walk up behind her when we're on our way to class and pull out a pen run up to her and ask if she dropped it and then from there I think I can hold a conversation.

Yes this is pretty lame but the best thing I could come up with.... any better ideas?

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I was thinking maybe walk up behind her when we're on our way to class and pull out a pen run up to her and ask if she dropped it


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and this is why I come to GC for help...

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I LOL though ...


Good luck man ! Just ask her if she would like to go out sometime, because you want to get to know her or something along those lines !

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So I'm pretty awkward... and I have no idea how to just start a conversation with someone. But there's this girl I like and I've wanted to say something to her for a while and I was thinking maybe walk up behind her when we're on our way to class and pull out a pen run up to her and ask if she dropped it and then from there I think I can hold a conversation.

Yes this is pretty lame but the best thing I could come up with.... any better ideas?


"Wow, that was tough; keeping my eyes open was virtually impossible... Where are you from?"

They're women, you're not meant to be frightened of them. Not always easy, but still she might appreciate being talked to rather than stared at :confused_2:

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and this is why I come to GC for help...


I told you it was a bad idea

You're welcome

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"hey"

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Just casually walk up to her and ask her what her favorite type of sandwich to make is. All women love making sandwiches. She'll probably even make you one if you ask the right way.

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Don't be scurred, it's just pussy!
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No no no, don't do the pen thing. She'll probably just think you're weird. ;)

Why not try something more like.. "Hey, my names ____, how are you doing?" :P

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Umm going behind her isnt a good idea. B/c you give off a stalker vibe doing that Approach her at a angle.

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What do you look like? Are you an alright lookin chap? Will you catch the eye of a lady? If not then this will be quite difficult, sadly.


Its just the way the world works my man. Btw the pen idea was dumb, so remember that and compare all your ideas to the pen idea and if it seems similar then dont fuckin do that dumb shit.

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Well, easy, if you have a large cock, just whip it out and walk up to a hot chick. You won't have to worry about conversation if her mouth is full of cock!

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Don't stalk the chick, some nerd did it to this hot girl. Just be simple and say "What's Good, my name is _____, talk about anything that comes to mind.

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Bro think about it the other way if a girl came up to u and said hey I'm ___ wats up ? Even if she was ok lookin I'd still talk back cuz i'd be into the fact that she came up to me. Jus be funny and not boring and ul be good

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"Does this smell like chloroform to you?"

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Ahh, the awkwardness of being a teen. The day you realise that making conversation is only hard when all your thinking about is "OMG WHAT DO I SAY NEXT OMG?" will be a very happy day. The day will come sir. For now, just remain confident and forget about making conversation and just speak.

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Ahh, the awkwardness of being a teen. The day you realise that making conversation is only hard when all your thinking about is "OMG WHAT DO I SAY NEXT OMG?" will be a very happy day. The day will come sir. For now, just remain confident and forget about making conversation and just speak.


Honestly, this is the best advice, thanks.

And as for how I look, I'm not ugly, I'm not gorgeous, I'm above average looking. I've had 2 girlfriends but they've all came to me. I'm not used to going after them myself.

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Ahh, the awkwardness of being a teen. The day you realise that making conversation is only hard when all your thinking about is "OMG WHAT DO I SAY NEXT OMG?" will be a very happy day. The day will come sir. For now, just remain confident and forget about making conversation and just speak.


Aha soo true

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Dont beat around the bush...lol....


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