@OP -I was in the exact situation you were in, i was bestbestfriends with this girl for a long ass time maybe like 4/5 years and then one night we were both finally single and we had some drinks and ended up having sex. Only several months of hooking up later I realized I liked her. ALOT. but one day she just stopped returning my calls and wanting to hang out abruptly, then i found out she was sleeping with some other dude. Instead of doing what best friends would of done, and told me what was up and how she felt, our friendship was clearly ruined. Be careful and talk to him or you might see the same fate.
im so sorry you went through that it sucks doesnt it. first time i got my heart broken was from my best friend and i feel like its always gonna hurt. sometimes i wished he would stop calling because i was driving myself crazy thinking hed realize we should be together. he knew how i felt so as a friend youd think he would stop leading me on but no he didnt. like they say if you love something you gotta set it free... i did and he never came back
Edited by StickyIckyChick, 27 July 2011 - 12:37 AM.