Proved Girlfriend wrong about Pot, Now she's mad...

So, earlier on today (A couple of hours ago) my girlfriend of 6 months and I got on the topic of pot and I never admitted to her about me smoking pot or denied it however I did tell her it is not bad for you. Every long text she sent me I replied to her with a long text with proven information proving her wrong (Mainly taken from "The Union"). Eventually she gave up and just said Whatever and still feels "Oh pot is still bad for you and it is dumb and your dumb if you do". So, pretty much now after she admitted she was wrong she still is sticking with her views. I sometimes do not get her. So now she said she is going to bed and probably will not talk to me. I really like her but sometimes she is a bit to stubborn and although she is very smart she can be wrong sometimes. I should also add she hates everyone who does pot (She believes her sister does it and she hates her now) and she has never smoked pot before. I'm a pot smoker of about 7-8 months.

One thing you will learn about women is that they will never admit defeat. Just nod your head and say "yes dear" and do your own thing.

In your case, just don't bring it up again.

Sounds like you got yourself a 'my way or the highway' kinda gal.

sucks:rolleyes:

yea, I know women are stubborn (Especially my girlfriend) However I feel like I have yet to tell her that I smoke pot. I have issues with people hating people for something that isn't even bad for you. I think her whole argument was stupid.

Sounds like you got yourself a 'my way or the highway' kinda gal.

sucks:rolleyes:

haha, Sorry for the double post but She is that sort of women. However, I truly love her and I'm sure she does to so she might just have to complain to me. Me being a gentleman though I would never show up high to a date or something like that. I doubt she would break up with me, she would just be annoyed with me, A LOT.

lose that chick OP. find one who is cool with pot. makes things a lot more fun

One thing you will learn about women is that they will never admit defeat. Just nod your head and say "yes dear" and do your own thing.

In your case, just don't bring it up again.

this is called being whipped by your girlfriend, come on man stand up for yourself and what you believe in.

. So, pretty much now after she admitted she was wrong she still is sticking with her views. I really like her but sometimes she is a bit to stubborn and although she is very smart she can be wrong sometimes. I should also add she hates everyone who does pot (She believes her sister does it and she hates her now)

Quite a catch there man, this would be the time I would bring up the analogy with the fish and the sea and watnot

lay down the law bro.

you the man.

shes lucky to be with you, not vice versa.

this is called being whipped by your girlfriend, come on man stand up for yourself and what you believe in.

Lol I wasn't talking about me

Shes entitled to her own opinions.

ok heres how it should be

she can dislike pot all she wants , thats her life to be out of the loop and your good for "trying" to shed light on that but she's a little stubborn as you said

i feel as long as she doesn't effect your smoking or make you personally feel "bad" or "wrong" for doing what you like then there shouldn't be that much of a problem
if it comes down to her nagging at you about it then you should maybe stick it out a week try to make understanding if no progress start debating moving on?

Shes entitled to her own opinions.

Indeed. But hating everyone who does not share them, even family members, seems just a tad extreme?

I should also add she hates everyone who does pot (She believes her sister does it and she hates her now) and she has never smoked pot before

Lol I wasn't talking about me

lulz sorry for the confusion the 1st part was toward you, the 2nd was toward OP haha

Shes entitled to her own opinions.

sure everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but they have to be flexable and accept new things instead of sticking with what theyve always been taught and being stubborn

this is called being whipped by your girlfriend, come on man stand up for yourself and what you believe in.

I know you might think I'm being whipped which I guess I might be, However I really like her and If i can have as much sex as I want I'm down with it

lay down the law bro.

you the man.

shes lucky to be with you, not vice versa.

Well, I guess so, But I wouldn't want to lose her.

ok heres how it should be

she can dislike pot all she wants , thats her life to be out of the loop and your good for "trying" to shed light on that but she's a little stubborn as you said

i feel as long as she doesn't effect your smoking or make you personally feel "bad" or "wrong" for doing what you like then there shouldn't be that much of a problem
if it comes down to her nagging at you about it then you should maybe stick it out a week try to make understanding if no progress start debating moving on?

Yah, I wish she was open to more things. She learnt this all from Dare in school and now she sticks to it and it has become what she believes in.

sure everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but they have to be flexable and accept new things instead of sticking with what theyve always been taught and being stubborn

Yea, I wish she could accept new things. She is stubborn and most likely won't be cool with it so we will see how long this relationship last (I'm assuming pretty long) But she needs to open up and realize that pot is not that bad. She needs to try it first before she judges my opinions and LOTS others.

So, she texted me back about 2 hours after I posted this and like I tried to ignore it and just say "yes dear" like the previous one but then she said we aren't just forgetting about this topic. So yah, tomorrow morning I will be hearing more. Oh BOII.

best advice i can give u about women, be it ur mom/sister/gf/wife...
when its stupid shit(which is most things we guys argue about) you NEVER want to win...its not worth it!!!!! in my opinion folding you hands is a small price 2 pay for the happiness they give you!!!

Whether it's about pot or whatever other issue, it'll all be the same.

Stubborn chicks are not worth the time.
Not saying you should break up with this chick but if she is close minded and stubborn, I wouldn't want to be with her...

You lied to her for 6 months about it...how do you expect this to turn out when she finds out?

You can still change her mind. It's been done before