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Why do girls talk about there ex's so such?
Posted 29 April 2010 - 07:57 AM
LMFAO! You remembered... I didn't till I saw that
But yeah OP Tha Professor has a lotta rep for a reason that's pretty much the truth, just listen to the way she talks about them.
I know I talked about them with distaste and a pissed off tone bc they were piece of shit losers. I can almost promise you she most likely doesn't give two shits about her ex's anymore.
I know Tha Professor gives good advice and all but that in no way makes him a female.
...or does it?
Posted 29 April 2010 - 08:49 AM
Posted 29 April 2010 - 09:09 AM
the only time i ever bring up my ex is if its absolutely necessary... ie: when someone asks where my dog is (she lives with my ex, "her dad")
exes before that? only if asked directly about them... or if i'm telling a story and mentioning them is pivotal to it.
i use the same strategy. i know why i dont want to hear about any of my girlfriends ex's, its pretty simple. i know if she says something like "my ex used to do that so please dont" that she is still reminded of someone she supposibly doesnt have feeling for. thats fucked up. to me at least, i mean if you're in a serious relationship thats whack.
Posted 29 April 2010 - 11:13 AM
Usually when a girl talks about her ex, she's pointing out the things he did wrong in hopes you don't do the same things.
And if she talks about the good things he did, she's hoping you'll top them.
exactly this <3 haha
but I usually don't talk about ex's unless it come's up.
and when it does it ain't anything serious either lol
Posted 29 April 2010 - 01:49 PM
But one of my best friend's does to guys ALL the time...talks about her ex's, talks about guys who've asked her out, who she could get with, etc. And she does it 'cause she thinks he's not showing her enough attention and so wants to show him she could be with other guys, but she's choosing to be with him so he'd better make the most of it sorta...or like she wants him to prove how he's better than all these other guys.
I dunno I never really got why people did that...I guess it can sorta make sense, but if you're with someone you really love you shouldn't need all that bull
It's annoying but you just gotta go along with it and show her you don't give a crap about other guys 'cause she's yours now
Posted 29 April 2010 - 02:44 PM
And you might deny the feelings for your ex, but ex-couples get back together all the time. If you disagree, clearly you have not yet been given the, "Sorry, my ex and I are going to try to work things out" speech.
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