girlfriend wont give me a blowjob.

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by stealthgrower, Dec 14, 2009.

  1. i had a girl like that one time when I was 16 it sucked lol and she had big ass lips i feel for u man
     
  2. Dump her ass and find a girl that will take care of you?
     
  3. bingo!
     
  4. If the pants don't fit trade it in for a new pair. Don't stress yourself at trying to work around it.
     
  5. Short of dumping your potentially otherwise cool chick, just stop eating her cooch. If you don't do it already, you don't really have any room to complain, but if you do and she still won't, then stop.

    That's just fairness, which is important for any and all parts of a relationship, not just getting some head.
     
  6. She probably doesn't think the actual physical act of giving a blow job is gross, but she thinks it's slutty or something. Some girls are weird like that... like they'll fuck their guy but never give them head because of the way girls who give head are made out to be. I guess the only thing you can really do is keep asking. Why are you with a girl who doesn't give head anyway, that's no fun. ;)
     
  7. do this for sure
     
  8. Haha I could tell you why -I- personally HATE HATE HATE giving blow jobs. Most guys don't know what a girl wants from a blow job! Sounds weird?

    What I mean is that girls don't necessarily want to have their heads shoved down and made to swallow a whole penis. A girl wants to be awesome at it but most guys expect their girl to suck them like a porn star. The more patient you are, the more she wants to do it.

    And to be honest, sometime I do feel emberrased because I'm not great at it. I want to be but most of the guys I've been with haven't given me the confidence to. I want to feel like my mouth brings such joy but most of the time I end up thinking about some slutty porn star and how I can't deep throat!

    I don't think it's dirty in any way. I can't possibly see why she would think so (especially after a shower). Do you give do it to her?
     
  9. we've talked about this a fair amount, and i told her not to be embarrassed if she wasn't good i would understand it's her first time and i would guide her. i also told her i wouldn't shove her head down or do any of that. i don't understand why she thinks it's gross either. i've asked her and she just says she is unsure about doing it, whatever that means.
    i do go down on her, and she loves it.
     
  10. This has to be the funniest post I've read so far.... :laughing:
     
  11. It means she doesn't know how to suck a dick. How old are you guys anyway?
     
  12. Well dude she might be disgusted by a thought of putting it in her mouth. Make her grow custom to it, you try eating her out, eat her out properly then she might get more loose about sucking it. Or maybe she is not quite skillful in giving blowjob, or she THINKS she isn't, so you have to prove her wrong. When she starts going down, anywhere down, you make her know that it turns you on, and as she gets closer and closer you start acting more and more turned on, share a couple of compliments like yeah you're doing it well, or I don't know think of something, and you might not get it the first time but try. I found a book couple of months ago, you might find it useful, i certainly do Learn How to Get More Blowjobs - Jack's Blowjob Persuasion
     
  13. next girlfriend
     

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