Question to girls

Ok so I've been in a relationship for the past 6 months with a girl I'm so in love with. Well today she told me that while we were together (not dating but close) she hooked up with another guy. This normally would only effect me slightly but it was with a guy I CANNOT stand. Just the sound of his name ruins my mood. Idk how to react to this news, so ladies the outcome I'm looking for is for her to be aware that this bothers me while still keeping my "don't give no fuck" image. Should I act sad or mad or just let it breeze by. Please this is bothering me more than it should.

Why do you have to act like you don't give a fuck? Just tell her what's up and if she can't deal well then, there are other fish in the sea. Sorry for your situation though. :l

If I were in her position, I'd want to hear how you're feeling about the other guy and what-not. But idk, that could be just me and she's a totally different chick so, good luck.

You need to be upfront and honest with her, not hiding behind some "i don't care" facade. If you truly love her then you shouldn't feel like you need to do keep up a certain image. And don't you think that you keeping information from her is kind of like the information about this guy shes kept from you all this time? What you both need right now is to communicate, be perfectly clear with eachother and try to understand eachother.
Find out why she felt the need to do what she did, find out why she told you and how she feels about it, these things are important.

Sorry to hear that happened to you, but at least you found out from her and not someone else. There is hope for her yet.

Thanks to both of you. I'm going to talk to her tommorow about it. Do you think it would be unreasonable of me to tell her not to talk or text him any more? Sorry I feel the need to put up the front because I don't want to come off as insecure

Thanks to both of you. I'm going to talk to her tommorow about it. Do you think it would be unreasonable of me to tell her not to talk or text him any more? Sorry I feel the need to put up the front because I don't want to come off as insecure

I never like to tell a girl that she can't talk to someone. That gives it some excitement and makes you seem insecure. If they love you, and you let it be known that it'll piss you the fuck off, then they'll stop talking to them themselves.

Ok so I've been in a relationship for the past 6 months with a girl I'm so in love with. Well today she told me that while we were together (not dating but close) she hooked up with another guy. This normally would only effect me slightly but it was with a guy I CANNOT stand. Just the sound of his name ruins my mood. Idk how to react to this news, so ladies the outcome I'm looking for is for her to be aware that this bothers me while still keeping my "don't give no fuck" image. Should I act sad or mad or just let it breeze by. Please this is bothering me more than it should.

man honestly u gotta get over it or break up one of the 2 theres no real point in letting her know it bothers u and honestly it sound like she cheated i have seen this befor the girl tells u it was right befor u got together and it slowly turns into right after u got together then in a fight u find out shes been suckin his dick and making out with u i have seen it with my friends more times than i can count

dude if i was you ide dump her and blaze
in that kind of situtation nothing better than a smoke

Thanks to everyone for their replies! As for an update I'm choosing to stick through it because I'm in love with her and for six months if this is the only trouble? Why not. Ok so I got a new question. Our six month anniversary is on Friday (the 13th) and idk what to get her. I already ot her the movie Friday the 13th cuz of the coinicidemce and also cuz she loves scary movies. Any other suggestions?

i dump her jsut cuz i dont deal with emotions like that...(yea i know not healthy).....everygirl wants flowers and candy no matter what they say a rly good one i have usaed a few times is a lest of reasonw hy u lvoe her(get cheesy)

Just be honest with how you feel to her. Don't be overly emotional, just tell her that it bothers you, and you want her to understand that you are bothered by it. That's all. No need to "act tough."