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I'm Agnostic, Girlfriend is Christian, Problem?
Posted 06 July 2008 - 10:30 PM
Posted 06 July 2008 - 10:39 PM
Some Christians are okay with going out with non-Christian guys and they're fairly open minded about it. Others wouldn't dare think of it. Just talk to her about it and see where you both stand and how you feel about it.
I'm kind of in your same boat. I'm semi-Christian and my boyfriend is Agnostic. We've talked about religion and I'm fine with him being whatever and he's fine with me being whatever the hell I am. We both agreed with not raising our kids in a church. It just takes some talking.
Posted 06 July 2008 - 10:41 PM
and i mean hey...i kno two months aint that long....but if youve made it thus far with no religion issues then y worry about it
the biggest issue ive found in these sort of relationships are when morals collide or when a kid is involved
Posted 06 July 2008 - 10:45 PM
Also, in case you get married... the faith of one lover is enough to save both souls, so if she has faith, it doesn't matter if you don't.
All this is in the New Testament.
Posted 06 July 2008 - 10:46 PM
Posted 06 July 2008 - 10:52 PM
she says she would prefer that i am a christian. she also said that a family that prays together, stays together. the latter worries me. is she trying to say that she would like me to be a christian before marriage?
fuck that, FUCK THAT. My brothers last girlfriend did the exact same fucking thing, tried to convert him. When they were engaged she cheated on him twice.
Posted 06 July 2008 - 11:31 PM
Posted 06 July 2008 - 11:39 PM
hahaha, I only kid!
I'm an agnostic kid with Southern Baptist parents. We haven't broken up yet. Hehe. But seriously....don't let it interfere. Embrace your differences. But with any relationship don't start planning on marriage until you guys are 100% used to each other. Otherwise you are gonna get your heart broken.
Posted 06 July 2008 - 11:54 PM
Posted 07 July 2008 - 12:30 AM
Honestly, this just sounds like a nice way of her to say that if you don't eventually come around and accept Christianity, she'll try dragging you to church, or leave you, etc. Honestly, what does "open-minded towards Christianity" even mean? It sounds like you already know it's not the thing for you, what's left to keep an open mind about?
She says she would not leave me as long as I am still open-minded towards Christianity.
I would definitely get this issue sorted out now before it becomes a major issue later on.
Posted 07 July 2008 - 07:35 PM
Posted 07 July 2008 - 07:51 PM
take it all in stride and try to keep the big picture in mind. .
open minded was the word she used, id keep that phrase.
seems like if you can both respect that the other has different opinions on a topic that is undeniably unproven by logic or any physical evidence
you be aight
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