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IS THIS WRONG??? Too young?? immoral?
Posted 29 June 2008 - 02:27 AM
but you probably wouldnt have asked if you werent a little wary of it already
trust your instincts always. they are there for a reason
Posted 29 June 2008 - 02:45 AM
Keep it on the DL too; no cruisin around with him while y'all are smokin. It's just too risky.
Sorry if some of that shit didn't make sense, I am stooooonnnnnnnneeeeeeeeed
Posted 29 June 2008 - 02:45 AM
i wouldnt wanna chill with a 13 year old period
Yeah I agree 100% dont chill with someone that young, hes thirteen he should be hanging out with friends his own age.
Even if he is a crazy drug sniffing 13 year old he sounds like bad news, and needs help, not an older person, even though you have good intentions. Stay away from this kid, and have ur little brother stay away from him. Im not trying to give you family advice, what you do is what you do, all I know is I wouldnt want my little bro hanging out with a kid like this.
Posted 29 June 2008 - 02:47 AM
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Posted 29 June 2008 - 03:09 AM
we ain't gonna tell you it's a good idea coz it's not!
If you wanna hang with him and help him through the rest of his childhood then treat him like the age he is. Teach him about stuff and how to make decisions, tell him things that'll help him understand the world and prepare him for being an adult. But don't treat him like an adult and smoke with him when he's not one, you will regret it.
Posted 29 June 2008 - 03:16 AM
Posted 29 June 2008 - 03:29 AM
legally: it's a bad idea and just not worth it.
morally: if the kid wasn't already troubled and have problems with hard drugs, i wouldn't see a problem with it. I don't necessarily have a problem with the age, but i don't like that he's thirteen. Thirteen is a little young, maybe a little too young. I know when i was fifteen i smoked with a bunch of 18 year olds, a few 20-25 year olds and at a dave concert i smoked with a 47 year old haha. So thirteen is a little young, but morally i don't have a problem with it if you think he's a good kid.
Posted 29 June 2008 - 03:30 AM
ok i think that i am being perceived wrong, amsterdamage, thank you for your insight along with everybody else, i see where i came of as justifying my hypotheitcal wrong doings... now i see that but what happends when the kid turns 16? and is already smoking?
since you're so close to him you're in a position to influence him, and since you care about him just tell him the truth, taking drugs before he's an adult is a bad idea. Smoking tobacco is a bad idea too. You don't need to tell him any dea bs, just tell him straight up what're good things for him to do and what're not.
Tell him about college and why he has to go there and play sports with him, hell you could join some martial art together, he'll get a lot more outta that than he would smoking with you. If you do these things and he's already smoking when he's 16, or in jail when he's 15, then it's not because of anything you did.
Posted 29 June 2008 - 03:40 AM
Posted 29 June 2008 - 03:41 AM
no i really dont. i hung out with kids older then me since 8th grade... i started smoking weed in freshman yr. only a toke or 2 at the beach but drinking was big then. more socially acceptable, my friends older brother used to h. me u. now, i just love to party. i reallly like to blaze in NYC i find they have the best weed for the best value, if u have a place to smoke
It sounds to me like you've already made up your mind on the subject, and just want us to agree with you.
Do what you want, but I'm with amsterdamage, rather than introducing him to more drugs, maybe you should attempt introducing him to the idea of going to college or things of that nature.
Posted 29 June 2008 - 03:56 AM
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Posted 29 June 2008 - 04:13 AM
and i respect the hell out of you for that. I know that when i was young, older people judging me not by my age but by ME really changed my life actually. I probaly wouldn't be the same person i am today if i didn't chill and share words with older kids , they taught me alot.
i judge people not by their age but by their wisdom and experinces