Long story short a few years ago a bunch of bs went down, she fucked me over badly, strung me along etc that kinda thing, went on for a while but dont wanna get into too much detail. Im over all of it now and idc about any of it anymore either. But she added me on fb a few days ago and started talking to me saying how she misses me and how I was really great and stuff, and idk if shes being legitimate or not, part of me thinks shes up to something but I honestly have no idea. My problem is, idk if i should continue talking to her or not, i dont wanna get attached to her again, but if she really does like me then i guess i wouldnt have a problem, but she can be full of drama which stresses me the fuck out dealing with her bs, just idk if she does like me or not, but id honestly rather just smash and thats it. So yeah, should i keep talking to her? I know if we did just stay as friends that probably wouldnt go well, she has a way of getting into peoples heads and like i said i dont wanna get attached to her again
Having sex with her will bring back memories, in the end if your trying to not get attached to a girl and still have sex with her it'd have to be someone you haven't been with before or had strong feelings. In the end they aren't an ex for nothing. Learn from your mistakes and move on, that's my 2 cents. Cheers
Thanks man and yeah, shes just hot af thats why i wanna smash badly, talking to her already brings back memories and it feels weird talking to her again so i really dont know
You already know what to do, your heart is just in the way. The right thing would be to stay far away from that crazy bitch! It is not worth the pain and agony just to get laid by a crazy person again.
if she treated you like that in the past then chances are she hasn't changed..but your penis has already made up your mind so good luck lol
Tell her you just want to have sex, and if you start having feelings gtfo. People change, maybe she is real nice now, maybe she is still ab itch. If you want to play it safe, dont do it, if you think you will be able to get out of the relationship when shit goes down (maybe it wont) without suffering too much, you can try. Tell her how you feel and do not trust her too fast.
It sounds like you've been there, bud. It's like quitting smoking and entertaining the possibility of smoking just one. The guy in your head already knows you're going to smoke it but you still think you have a choice. But maybe the OP's a stronger man than I am.
Knowing how she treated you before, why would that even be a factor? That's likely how she will string you along... again. Think with your big head, not the little one.
Well if i know its gonna be anything like how it was before I was gonna cut her off entirely, things have changed since we both used to talk and im not as easily led along like how I used to be, so I really dont know. Hard to tell whether shes changed as well or if shes the same crazy mofo she was
Just looking for other people's input, like I said im kinda of at a loss for what I should do, then again im probably overthinking all this
Dude either use her just for sex no strings attached or stay away. Be a savage. Bang the young hot broads while you can, you have a long time to find a another girlfriend, this chick will never be that one. Just fuck her
Men have had these problems with women forever brother. If u did have feelings you must likely will get them back even if that is not your intention (speaking from experience)