pof sucks serious shit

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by andy85258, Nov 23, 2015.

  1. made a profile, decided to post to the review forum. I only got Maybey a few useful criticisms and the rest were smug pricks who played armchair shrink and made personal comments as if they knew everything about me. Then highfived themselves when I decided the whole thing was stupid and left.


    How anyone gets success on this site I'll never know

     
  2. I fell meeting someone in real life would increase your chances then over the web.
     
  3. I donno man. I used POF and i found my girlfriend, and shes pretty awesome.. just gotta find the right girl looking for the right thing at the right time i guess. I had a few flops. One girl was ready to meet me until I told her that my car was in the shop so i would be a few minutes late. She said she didn't want to be with anyone who couldn't take car of themselves or their cars.. so i mean yea.. theres a few c u next tuesday's.


    I also agree with Darkness420. Usually if the girl is hot enough to not need POF and is using it, most of the time (unless you're lucky like me), there's a reason. Bat. Shit. Crazy.

     
  4. Idk, it's useful. I've had some fun from that site. I, however,would never subject myself to a profile review by some random internet nerds.
     
  5. Maybe you'd have more luck on Okstupid, it's all desperate girls and women hungry for a green card.
     
  6. My friend Dustin calls it Plenty of Fat Chicks :p


    Try Tinder, you'll pry at least get laid. Don't be looking for a keeper there though....bc you'll likely only find heart ache and genital herpes.
     
  7. lol tinder is so dead, at least where I am. Most of the chicks on there haven't logged in since forever.
     
  8. I didn't have any luck with POF the brief period I used it but yeah I would stay away from letting random people rate you, it is easy for people to type something fucked up from behind a screen, but I used Ok Cupid for a while and had some success there. Good luck out there buddy, I have also noticed there are a number of Cannabis dating apps available now, if I wasn't in a relationship that would probably be the route I went.
     
  9. I'm half stupid and have had lots of success on Okcupid. In fact, I meet my current girl on that site. Sorry, but I think some dudes that are bad with women want to blame online dating for their inability to pick up chicks. Why not post some details so maybe we can help?
     
  10. Tinder you got to be proactive on that shit and have good profile pictures.


    Coffee meets bagel, and happn is also good

     
  11. Internet dating is a joke. Especially if you're a guy. It's mostly fat single mothers and/or complete fucking sluts who have demolished their reputations so badly in the "real world" that they can no longer get laid due the STD threat they pose. I did it for a while and went on several dates with several different chicks, only to discover that they'd used 5-10 year old photos of themselves when they were 50lbs lighter. Why the FUCK would someone misrepresent themselves like that online if they're actually intending on eventually meeting the guys they're talking to?

     
  12. I think it works out for some. But I steer clear of pof because it's the site I've met the most creepers on.
     
  13. Chicks off POF fucking kill me. Lots of them receives hundreds of messages from creeper dudes as diesel chick pointed out, which is fine, but in response to that, their standards go up.. Like for example, i'm trying to talk to this woman on POF and she's like your a grenade, don't talk to me, then i literally see her at the library and she tries to engage me like "didn't you message me on POF before?" Like what the hell am i supposed to say to her now, more over when shes not nearly as good looking as she seems to be based off of the pics.


    IDK, it just strikes me that they get all these messages and have really high standards until they leave their computer chair and real life kicks in.. maybe they don't even realize they have over-valued themselves until something like above happens?


    At any rate, i try to stay away from POF. I do use it, but i don't message anyone, usually just check my shit to see if any brazen women gonna message me. I don't even really need to use it, i have no problem meeting woman, but i am currently looking for somebody to be my baby's momma and that person has gotta have some shit going for them since the last lady i almost had a kid with was rich and that opportunity is still on the table, but holy fuck is that lady crazy. lol!


    If your just looking to hook up though, tinder is a lot better. Also, you have to watch for women in public that sit close to you and are swiping excessively on their cellphone screens.. Before i was using tinder, i had no idea what that meant but its a pretty good indication they are looking for you on tinder, since the app itself is location based and is basically used to find people who wanna hook up near you in the heat of the moment.. I missed out without it, i cannot lie, I regret it.
     
  14. Your "creepers" are probably just guys who are attempting to engage in conversation with you. Unless you created your POF profile with the sole intention of being perpetually offended when members of the opposite sex tried to talk to you, I really don't know what else you expected. Maybe they should've just known from the start that you were out of their league, right?

     
  15. I'm a lesbian. So in the instance of being perpetually offended by men contacting me when my profile specifically states I'm only interested in women, I suppose you would be correct. However the creepers I'm talking about have been women. And I'm not about to be someone's side piece when they have a man who isn't satisfying them. Which was most of what I got even if their profile stated they were gay or bi and single. I met one or two nice people but we didn't click past a friendly level. So like I said in my post before, if it works out for you on that site, great.
     
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  16. #16 Jane_Bellamont, Dec 10, 2015
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    Now that you've mentioned it - I think I might give dating sites another try this Christmas. Pay for it, if I have to. I can't possibly be the only lipstick lesbian in town (although it would be pretty awesome if I was..)


    I'm gonna be making a mighty come back at the local bar, too.. wearing my long-socks, high heels, college skirt, white top and a tie. Summer has officially started - and women can now wear whatever they want without dying of hypothermia, I guess. For some reason I used to think that bars were busier during the winter.. but oh well.. now I know why they're not. //static.grscty.com//public/style_emoticons/default/cool.gif


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    Here's a problem, though. I noticed that people tend to give me weird looks every time I tell them I work at fast food.. even people who work minimum wage jobs themselves. It's as if they were condescendingly trying to tell me that I could do better. Little do they know that I work even less hours than a college student, and still pay my bills with money to spend. I dunno, though.. Should I keep my mouth shut this time, or just be honest about my 'job'?


    ..Which then leaves me thinking - Are we becoming shallower and pickier than ever? I mean, what the fuck is up with this shit. At least I have a JOB? I'm NOT a welfare queen, HELLO?


    You know what - fuck it. Ya'll can go date somebody else. I'll just keep watering my marijuana plants, playing with my cat.. and doing wheelies on my e-bike.


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  17. this. what do you guys say to these girls? i've met a few great women through POF.. but i've also had a few flops as everybody will, online and offline

    it's sad how so many people can only see dollar signs!! it seems you need to make a certain amount of money just to be compatible with most people now a days
     
  18. I have to admit this is one of the reasons why I don't bother trying to date anymore. People are so fixated on what you do for a living, and if it's something like fast food like you said, or like me, working part time at kmart, we're looked down upon even if the conversation had gone on well up until that point. Never mind the fact that I still manage to pay my bills somehow.
     
  19. Why don't you and Jane just hook up then if you're both single lesbians? Or at least attempt to? Shit, you already have weed in common.
     
  20. Um, I may be lonely, but I'm not dying for a date, don't think I wouldn't take it that far. lol. That would be, bit weird.
     

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