I might be scaring him...

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Arya Stark, Nov 19, 2015.

  1. So I was a pretty heavy smoker in high school, loved it and never wanted to give it up. I eventually did and picked up drinking. Yuck, it did nothing for me but make me make stupid decisions and gain weight. FF 12 years. I've given up the drink and started growing and smoking again about 4 months ago, I started working out and am getting my sexy back. So with all this new energy and confidence I am finding myself horny as hell like all the time. I'm sure it has something to do with the fact that I'm 32 and in my sexual prime. So anyways, my man doesn't smoke, he drinks and is the same ol' guy he always was...whereas I've made these changes, feel really good and sexy and want to have sex pretty often...I think about it so much and dream about it at night. My man is definitely enjoying it, but I think I'm wearing him out. It's not even about the intimacy for me most of the time, I just want to be pounded and to have orgasm after orgasm..do men get tired of this or do you think he is fucking loving it. Of course he says he is...but I'm not sure. I don't want to annoy him, and if I am than I'll just masturbate. So I guess what I'm asking is, how much sex is too much? And can a woman be to horny or want sex too much? I don't want to scare him...lol

     
  2. I imagine he is loving every minute of it.
    :smoke:
     
  3. If you feel like you're hounding him too much, take care of things yourself. If he doesn't have a bored look in his eye while he's pounding you, you're good to go. You could also try something you haven't done before. He's probably bragging to his buddies about all the great sex he's getting. Lol Men love confidence and initiative.
     
  4. He's prob enjoying the attention, it feels good to be desired like that. My girl is the same way.
     
  5. Can never get enough.
     
  6. I say he's loving it, I don't know why he would be sacred.
     
  7. Fuck i wish i had his problem my ol lady hates sex
     
  8. here is how you find out. masturbate in front of him. if he can sit there the whole time with out joining in then ya, you might be wearing him out. something tells me though, that he will be helping you out of your clothes and will ask to be useful tool lol!
     
  9. Completely depends on the people in question. Everyone telling you "he's loving it" may be completely wrong since they don't really know what goes on in his head, what kind of guy he is, or what kind of relationship you two have. I've gotten tired of chicks I've been with sexually and moved on to others. Not with all, but definitely with some.


    If you've had sex a lot, he may be over it, at least for a while, and at least with you. I'm not saying he IS, I am saying it is a thing that happens, and only you and your guy can find out/talk about what scenario you're in.

    Anyone telling you the guy can't get tired of it is wrong, and I'm in better physical shape than most people. Part of sex is about the mystique and novelty of someone new. It's an exploration and a finding out. After doing it every which way possible, that novelty can in fact be worn out. It's not a bash at you or him IF it's worn out, but just like with everything else, repetition does have the chance of causing exactly that.

     
  10. The person above me is right. Men can and do get bored with sex. You need to talk to him and open the lines of communication. Keep those lines open after this and your relationship will be in great shape.
     
  11. Really depends on the chick in question and the chemistry. I get tired of most chicks, sexually, very fast. Like 2-3x banging. My current has kept me satisfied for much longer...and it def has to do with how much she desires me.
     
  12. lol....


    classic case of a female completely overthinking a situation.

     
  13. nah actually shes not i dont think.....


    when my girl and i had nonstop sex like that it drove us apart to breaking up... i was with her for 3 years i think?

    the shit got boring, she stopped turning me on....

    i honestly never thought i would get to that point either....

    he wont ever tell you that your becoming less attractive to him
    cuz hes not gonna hurt your feelings like that

    just tease the fuck outta that niqqa make him want that shit bad


    do really really kinky shit that you havent done before


    IMO too much bangin is bad it gets boring

    its like jackin off to the same porn video every time
     
  14. Doesn't smoke weed and has a low sex drive?


    Sometimes you have to cut a man loose [​IMG]
     

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