I just found out that porn and masturbation causes ED

One could only hope that it were true...might help to decrease the scourge that is the porn industry.

 

I watch porn all the time and have no performance issues whatsoever.

 

I guess i am a lucky one too. And I bet the majority is lucky ones too. It sounds like you are the UNLUCKY one.

 

Different strokes for different folks.. some can watch it all day long and not become dependent on it, some can't. Usually those who can't are more than likely having some sort of fetish or desire that they can't act out for whatever reason.. but if you find a woman that you can express your sexual self with, you'll probably find yourself less dependent on porn.

Then again that was a bunch of assumptions based on experience and observation and might not strike a cord at all with your situation.

 

I can see this happening. Any links of studies about this?


I had this problem the other night with my new fwb. I don't watch porn anymore since she satisfies me. So hopefully this will change. I think my ED was due to me being highly intoxicated though.

 

Divorcing over this issue (main issue), so yes I think there's a definite link. Haven't had sex in years with my soon to be ex-husband, because he can't. But he's got no problem with Rosie.

 

I have a really hard time believing that watching other people having sex would cause my own noodle to become limp.


I don't believe it.


J

 

Only a problem if youre watching gay porn and a bird sucking ya cock. Maybe youre gay but cant admit it?

 

Whiskey dick.

 

Depends on whether you are 'relying' on the same fantasy to get off...even in high libido fellas it can alter the course or produce unrealistic 'thresholds' for orgasm...what that means is it is a disproportional ejaculatory latency from Porn to the Real thing..so when you go to bang a chick don't be surprised when it takes forever to bust a nut from all the porn use... and yes, in sensitive individuals (or perhaps insensitive) it may cause "E.D"....

 

Sounds like performance anxiety to me. I don't look at a lot of porn, but I've suffered from performance anxiety since I was about 25. My ex-wife was very experienced, I was not. She also made quite a few emasculating comments to me over the years I was married to her, which didn't help either. Particularly her constant reference to her boyfriend in college's 13 inch dick, and how she couldn't believe I "only" had half of that. She was a real piece of shit. After I got divorced, I became MUCH more experienced. I was amazed at how easy it was to get laid after 30 as opposed to how difficult (impossible) it was when I was in my early 20's before I was married. It was almost too easy, actually. Anyway though, the performance anxiety never went away. I could go six months without viewing porn once, and it was still there. Nothing is worse than "losing it". Even though it's all in my mind, I still have never been able to shake it. So.....I use Viagra.

 

Yes, it's true. When you are young, don't fap!!! Impress the ladies in bed. Then you get married. After 20 years, you get tired of the same ol pussy and turn to porn. Fuck it. I enjoy porn more than my own wife. Fuck it.

 

oh.....should i stop getting myself off to porn now, then? i don't mean when to do it again. i'm so sorry.,i didn't know. i'll never stop!! no. just try an' stop me.....lol....j/k

 

I hope she don't read this

 

All other issues potentially involved aside, porn is an outlet of sexual energy. Different people generate different amounts thereof. If you have a limited libido (nothing wrong with it, just saying you aren't perma-horny) then the amount of porn/masturbation you engage in can take up a large chunk of it, if not all of it.

As a guy who's had a healthy amount of chicks (Pause for feminist offense), I personally like being in control of that part of my body and thus mind. It is painfully obvious what out of control horniness can do and has done to people, mostly guys. I'd hate to be the guy spending hours, if not days "working" on a chick just for the slight hope she may give it up. Ironically, this clarity of mind allows you to be better at picking up chicks in the first place. They see a beggar a mile away.


If you want to watch porn, watch porn. If you want to hang out with whatever chick(s) you're hanging out with, then hang out with them. Just don't blitz your mind out with hours of porn and masturbation, and then wonder why the real deal has lost some of its luster.

I see what you did there.

That means he doesn't want to, with you. Not he can't.
Having a problem with Rosie would mean he can't.

This is key. Thanks for saying it.



I'm not married but have had a couple longer relationships. Unless you find a mental connection that is >actually major< with another person, then yeah, the sex can become old. I think most couples are terrified of admitting this to themselves and each other because it would suggest something is wrong with them or their marriage. Guys are generally told they "can't" like in the example above, which completely ignores what his body and mind are saying.

 

u cray cray, dude........porn w/ half the stuff left around u....prop your foot up,,,,why not?


darn.....

 

I agree with you.. I'm 19, and I've suffered from performance anxiety before. LOL, it was the worst. I definitely went through a phase of not being able to get up with at least 3 different girls. I stopped beating my dick so much and watching porn, and it helped I guess. The real problem was my anxiety towards getting up, I had to stop thinking about getting up so much before sex and focus on how good I was gone fuck the shit out of her


I got out that phase quick, probably only about a month and a half of those troubles. But now I beat my dick whenever to porn and it doesn't affect me when I actually do get action. I would also say try different methods of masturbation, then just the ole right hand going to work method lmao.