Help! I've never been able to feel the pleasure of an orgasm. I have amazing sex yet I never finish. Why?
Be selfish. Try letting Go. Don't think about other things bothering you. Think about things that only feel good. Masterbate, this will help you to learn about yourself, your boundaries, and to practice without the crowd. Be selfish. Maybe you don't trust the other person? Having an organism is a sense of loosing control. Do you want to allow the other person into your innermost circle?
Interesting, because I have orgasms all the time, but I've never had sex. Male agenda and female beliefs.
Find some erotic porn to read. Read that and have a magic bullet ready and you will have one for sure. Having an orgasm with intercourse is quite a bit different. Position is really important