Man, I'm really stuck here. Obviously, I have no certain proof of it but my friend just seems to not notice the little things she hints. I got drunk and stoned with the both of them and she was telling stories about people thinking she is one, suggesting, to me at least, that she is one. On top of that her short hair, looks, and the way she acts make me believe it even more. Yes, many women have short hair now but still. Should I tell my friend, not tell him or wait awhile longer to see if I get more reasons? Really stuck on this
Maybe she's bi, maybe she doesn't conform to gender norms in regards to appearence. I would be rather offended if a friend of mine came up to me and started telling me what's what about my significant other's sexuality. But that's just me.
maybe she is bi...or just being trendy. In either event, friend needs to just let things run on their own. It is a conversation for THEM if the GF is, in fact, lesbian. That you are worrying about it is, in and of itself, worrisome...and suggests that you must not have a life of your own.
Maybe you should mind your own business and let your friend live his life. Why would you even want to interfere with mere speculation as your proof? Are they unhappy? Does he seem suspicious of her? What is your motivation for getting involved in the first place? Are you jealous and want to create friction between them? Are you attracted to your friend and want him for yourself? Butt out. Unless your friend comes to you for advice keep your suspicions to yourself. Easiest way to lose a friend is to talk shit about his girlfriend.
As I said, I have no definitive proof and yes, as I also said, short hair doesn't mean she is. But it's more of a concern for my friend. His last girlfriend fucked him up big time and it took forever for him to get over it, and I'd like to not have it happen again. And the way someone acts does have a lot to do with it. You can tell someone is gay by the way they talk, walk, hand motions, etc. so that their is valid reasoning
It's a stereotype for a reason. Every one I've ever interacted with makes it very clear through their actions
Fair enough, I won't say a word. But in regards to minding my own business, when shit goes down, it is gonna be my business, because he'll talk to me, so I don't see how it isn't now
Trust me when I tell you that there are PLENTY of lesbians in the States who you would NOT know were lesbian except and unless someone told you or they told you themselves. And then there are those who will put on the display of stereotypes around certain males just to try and get the male to leave them alone... And yes, I DO speak from experience...especially since I have likely been out longer than you have been alive.
My response wasn't just towards lesbians, the poster I responded to seemed to be speaking in general. But yes lesbians are much harder to spot than gays. But as someone who study's psychology for a living and for fun, all because I was given the exceptional gift of being able to read people, my theories are more often than not correct. It may take time for me to be proven right but in the end it happens
its the new hipster trend..they all want to look like ruby rose ever since she was on orange is the new black