Right now I'm pretty busy with life, real estate school is about to start, I'm focusing on a lot of important things in my life and I'm going to Canada in November so my money is pretty tight.. but there's this assistant at the chiropractors office and she's insanely good looking, nice, funny and I'm pretty sure she's into me. I'm having trouble deciding whether I should go for it, or if this means I can't deal with girls for a little while I do all this stuff. I'm here right now btw so I have maybe 10 minutes to decide, GO!
Most women will not go farther than a smile to indicate attraction to the men, so it is always a hard call to make, but don't hesitate to make a mistake. You gotta start your approaches somewhere and what better way to do it than with some chick you know sure you ain't gonna see again.
That's the thing, I'm going to come here every week for a couple of months!! So I'll see her on a consistent basis haha.
Life's too short to hold off a relationship because you're "too busy" man. I think you should at least take her out on a date and try to get to know her. And well whatever happens happens. But hey that's just me, if you really want/need to set your priorities than do so.
GO GET EM' BOYYYY. But it's worth a try, as opposed to never knowing right? The worst that could happen is you get rejected. The advantages strongly outweigh the disadvantages
Yeah, it's hard to say because when your approach consists of "Im leaving in a short amount of time and i won't be back for a while" there is kind of this idea that she may think you are just trying to get an easy lay or something and also keep in mind that the date cannot go horribly, since you are for sure going to see this person again. I don't know, but i do know a good saying.. it goes "You will not rise to the occasion, you will sink to your training." its applicable to almost any aspect of life and is a fantastic thing to remember. If you are not trained, you will sink. So maybe just consider this girl training and be prepared to sink. Laugh about it. Happens to the best of us. Whatever you do, good luck dude!
Well I'm being a little bitch right now but fuck it, I'm here again right now And I'm gonna do it this time lol. Whether I sink or fall I tried haha, I just really have nothing to go off of tbh butttttttt doesn't hurt to try.
Well she just giggled/smiled and told me she was going to think about it??? Usually it's yes or no, could be a way of saying no without having to say it? Edit: you know what, fuck it, I did it, that's what's matters ðŸ».
She didn't shoot you down outright, which means she's probably testing you. I'd wait a day or two then ask again. Maybe you should suggest a specific time and place.
Exactly this, if she really didn't want to at all, she would have said flat out no. Best of luck man.
Alright you guys have a point, its just I'm gonna see her again next week on Wednesday so I was thinking of semi laughing it off and saying "so, I hope I didn't make things awkward last time it's really not that a big deal more of just a yes or no thing" but I think that might sound semi mad or something lol. What do you think?
I would stick with laughing it off and going with "hope I didn't make things awkward" but without the yes no part..... You can always give her your number at the end of the appointment if you wanna try again - and just tell her to call you if she wants to make that date. That way you keep it casual and you are gonna find out within the week one way or the other...... But it could get awkward for you in the long run if she doesn't call/text. Guess it depends how well you take rejection idk. Personally I would do the above and move on if it doesn't go anywhere - and you've got plenty to keep you busy! "What's for you won't go by you" as my granny used to say!
" let me think about it"... millions of questions going through her head, but during the day she'll think about you here and there. I would say, follow up with her. be direct with her and let her know you like her. smooth sailing dude! good luck
Do what you feel is right bro. Her saying "maybe", to me id think of it as her wanting you to put in some effort as in to see how good you are. I mean if you jus asked her on a date the only thing that'd get her to say yes would be your looks. So I think you gotta get to know her, try and get her to text you or you text her. Once you can text her it's all down to how good your game is