There's this girl that works at a medical marijuana dispensary that I frequent and I think she's attractive and I want to get her number but I'm not sure how to go about doing it. I don't always see her when I go because sometimes she works in the back room or isn't at work, etc. I haven't talked to her at all yet but eventually I might get lucky and have her as my budtender and that will be my opportunity to talk to her and gauge her interest and get her number but I'm not sure what I should say. Anyone have any ideas?
If she is attractive and she works in the MMJ industry, I am willing to bet dollars to doughnuts that she already has a guy. I doubt that she would want any of the patients. She is probably sucking off the dispensary owner for free bud. Good luck!
I went on a few dates with this girl that worked at a smoke shop I use to go to. Most of the time she was the only other person in the shop so I would talk to her every time I went in until I eventually asked for her number. I can't do the same thing with this girl at the dispensary because there's a bunch of people working there and they rotate jobs so I'm hardly ever gonna be in a position to have a conversation with her. I have a good rapport with some of her co-workers. I'll ask one of them if she's single.
If you aren't sure what to say you're probably going to look awkward. You just need to not give a fuck and welcome rejection if it happens. You lose what you don't try. You must pay attention to any awkward body language you're giving off if you're nervous. Don't be the first to break eye contact. Just be confident and don't look sloppy. Do you consider yourself attractive? I've hit on girls while they were at work. It didn't turn bad but definitely get some ins with coworkers if you already know some. That's already a decent lead.
If she is attractive, she has seen it all. She has seen the games, pickup lines and everything. She has dated guys, both good and bad. Just be honest, brave and be a beast about it. Don't flatter and say she's pretty - she gets that every day. Just walk up and say "I'm not the best at this whole chit chat breaking the ice bullshit...do you want to go out for coffee sometime, because I would really like to get to know you a bit better?" If she says no, she knows you don't BS and she will respect that hard out. If she doesn't, she's a complete moron and you need to find someone better
Ask her when and where the next dispensary event, party, or music event is going to be held and show up there. Usually dispensaries have events to bring in more customers and the whole staff works the events. Or they will sponsor an event or judge somewhere like an emerald cup or dope magazine event. But remember she'll be hit on a lot and you'll have to say something out of the ordinary to get her attention. There also can be local bar or happy hour events
Tell her she looks OK but a 6 max and keep on walking, guaranteed solid 5% success rate. Or my all time favorite drop a magnum out of your wallet while paying.
Getting girls to go out with you while they are at work is very very hard, Girls dont like being hit on while they are working for some reason, it rarely works, almost guaranteed turn down unless your really fly and super hot or something. Just spit the best game you can and dress nicely and smell nice and go for it. but odds arent in your favour.
Its as simple as this man. You will miss 100% of the shots you never take! So be ready for rejection but you never know if it will work till after you shoot! Good luck homie