My husband told me smoking weed everyday makes me fake?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Kayaytee, Jul 17, 2015.

  1. Okay, so to start off with before we got married I told my husband that I was a pot head thinking that a pot head was someone who smokes everyday because I smoke three times a day 7 days a week. He was under the impression that a pot head was what I call a "casual" who smokes to have fun on the weekends.... I guess I need help explaining myself because no matter how I tried to explain it to him that I smoke every day he said that no matter what the substance is that if I am high more than I am sober than I am living a fake life. He went even as far to compare this herb to alcohol asking me if he drank every day what I would do and I told him I would divorce him immediately because alcohol is completely different! When I smoke I remain myself, and even if I didn't have a disease I would probably still smoke but it does help with my GERD (shortly after eating when I'm struggling to keep my food down, taking a hit makes all of the struggle go away).
    I need different opinions, ones of experienced smokers like myself and maybe some from the other side? How do I explain to him that this is a part of who I am without him objecting saying that no substance can be a part of who someone is....? And if you think the same way as him why would you think that potheads are fake ??? OR if you're a pot head and can explain the other half to me that would work too! I just need some input before I can try and be tactful about this. -Kat.

     
  2. U shouldn't have to explain to him who you are or what vices you choose to implement in your life

    If you love smoking weed, then that's who you are. You're not being fake, you're doing what makes you happy. And if your husband can't get behind that, then I guess you guys gotta find a way to work it out


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  3. You should of married me, dame U.s girls are much more beautiful than Irish girl...x
     
  4. I don't understand how you guys got to the point of marriage and he didn't understand you smoke 24/7? Did you guys not hang out much together? Do you hide your smoking and only do it when he's not around?


    Sounds shitty, and honestly you have a serious up hill battle. Best of luck, it's a situation that would drive me insane.
     
  5. Take a indigestion pill and cut back on the smoking if you want to help your relationship, GERD has to be the worst excuse ive heard for smoking weed haha
     
  6. Why does changing the way you live your life have to be the answer? Sounds like OP's hubby needs a slap in the face and someone to tell him that people live their own lives.
     
  7. As if you want a relationship to work you make comprises, you can't expect it to be a one way street.
     
  8. If you are getting high everyday but still handling your business then fuck him.
     
  9. You don't know unless you've been there, last time I tried to eat sober I puked up thanksgiving dinner in front of my grandma. I could take a handful of pills and feel nothing compared to the relief I get from cannabis.
     
  10. I have gerd I take a rennie and I'm good to go, I'm just saying if that's what's causing the conflict is relief over gerd then there are plenty of routes to go to other then cannabis.
     
  11. #11 MochaBearBlazed, Jul 18, 2015
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    this this 100 times this. seriously, did you guys not live together for a bit before you got married? at least spend the weekend together?


     
  12. Cart before the horse?
     
  13. They both need to slap each other.
     
  14. must be, she needs her self a black nerd, we can dab, play magic the gathering, and listen to gangster rap [​IMG]
     
  15. Wow, I'd hate to see how your relationship handles actual problems. 10-1 this marriage won't last another twelve months. Who else wants in on this action?
     
  16. Count me in lol
     
  17. Why would you marry a guy in the top 1000 uncool people of the world.

    This guy sounds worst than a chick. At least chicks give you ultimatums, this guy flat out called you a fake. Ask him if he has read the book "Catcher in the Rye", if he has id gtfo.
     
  18. I think that the husband is acting like her father, and not her life companion.


    For better or worse, in sickness and in health...


    J
     
  19. You're not fake. You area pothead. As far also can tell, you are an honest pothead. Smoking every day isn't a reflection of how real you are any more than someone on any other psychoactive drug like antidepressants.

    I'd be trying to find out the real problem. If he was happy with how things were going, he wouldn't be bitching about your pot use.
     
  20. lol I don't understand the book reference part, explain that one
     

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