Ever met someone psychotic? Please do tell: I moved to a new city in september and found a crib but one of my roommates was allergic to cats (i have one). Landlord (we'll call him T) says he's got another crib and gave me the address. T seemed cool so I was like why not. I go check out the place and it was in the hood (Carribbean folk but they're chill so I didn't mind). I was doing bad financially so I moved in. I didn't have much friends at this point and T seemed cool so we used to hangout on his couch, blaze and watch shows. This turned to an every day thing though and being the introvert I am, it was hard getting a lone time. Whenever I'd go to my room and tell him that I want to be alone, he constantly interrupts and opens the door claiming I should check something out with him on TV. Over the months, I've realised he's actually crazy like he yells at the other roommates for small issues, extreme mood swings and easily irritated but he claims that he needs a guy as peace and laidback as me in his life so he's happy he's met me. He also starts doing low key gay shit like one day I woke up startled to him staring at me sleeping while sitting on the edge of my bed. I woke up yelled at him but he claimed it's all good but I told him to never do that again. He starts getting insecure when I leave the house too,almost like he interrogates me when I come home and doesn't believe what I was doing. He was also violent to my cat whenever I wasn't there. I've never heard my cat hiss so loud except with this guy I swear. One week we were fighting then suddenly one day he's yelling at my face telling me that I have no where else to go, no one I know for help and I'm hopeless. Soon as I heard that I was raged man. I booked a hotel, packed my shit and left when he wasn't home so I left a note with the keys. Soon as I arrive to the hotel my phones getting spammed by his suicidal and violent threats but I never gave a fuck, all for attention you know? Eventually, months later, he calms down and apologizes saying he was wrong for everything and asks for my forgiveness. A month later I agree and say it's cool and we eventually meet up.. Please don't be as stupid as me in giving crazy people a second chance.. I chill with him twice at his crib and leave by uber from his phone so he has my current address to my crib. I tell him I'll see him this weekend but I forget to text him cause I was feeling under the weather but he said I was snaking with a mutual friend (that he has beef with) when I just chilled home. I lost my shit, said I don't have time for this type of crap at all and to leave me alone. He threatens he'll see me at my address (he has it) to "return his property". I replied to never threaten me like that ever again and to realize how psychotic he sounds.
Man I saw my crazy ex girlfriend when I read this. This is almost exactly how she would act, insecure, obsessive, and threaten me or talk mad shit to me when she's mad or doesn't get her way. I only stayed with her as long as I did because of the sex and wishful thinking. So that makes me wonder, what keeps drawing you back to him? You gay brah? I'm just kidding, but seriously...even if you were gay you need to put as much distance as you can between yall. He's obviously not a healthy person to be around and who knows what he will do. If he truly wants forgiveness then forgive him, but don't go back to hanging out or texting/calling, or anything with this guy. Forgive him and go on with your life, you both will probably be way better off.
Had a schizophrenic roommate in college. He was pretty cool. There were times he freaked me out. Like the time he told me there was a little man crouched in the corner of the room staring at me. I had a hard time sleeping that night. He stayed on his meds and had very few psychotic episodes. We became friends and he had no issues with my being gay. He was hot too. Married and has 5 kids. Mormons are prolific. I get updates from him from time to time. He is still pretty damned hot.
I second this. Be responsible with it, learn to use it and also carry less lethal options in addition
Hahaha nah I'm not gay, I just don't have much friends in this city, that dude went through a lot of shit in his life and didn't have any friends so I felt bad for him and gave him a second chance. I'm too forgiving but yeah I blocked him. Yooo the sex must've been amazing with your ex though, am I right? My ex was a crazy psycho too but holy fuck the sex was sooo good that I still to this day jack off reminiscing to her hahah.
I have a story. When I was younger , maybe like 13-14 I had a friend who I would smoke with. Well his mom was crazy. One day we smoked and he passed out and I was sitting there on the couch watching TV all smoked out like your typical 14 year old kid. And his mom comes down in a lacy onzie thing drunk as fuck. She starts crying to me and hugging and cuddling me and shit. She was asking a bunch of weird questions and i had to tell her to go to bed. Worst part is my friend ended up over seeing some of that and hasn't talked to me since and it's been a good 5 years.
kiiinda reminds me of a friend I had, a lot of similarities..... Your friend needs a friend, for his selfish needs, and he will keep you down so he can achieve whatever he is trying to get out of you. He is using different tactics to keep you as a "friend" Idk, if you can't keep him under your control and get things out of him, you have to move along and DO NOT LET HIM KNOW WHERE YOU LIVE