My Woman or Smoking Weed?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by joetok, Jun 29, 2015.

  1. Last night my woman says to me.............I don't like the smell of that stuff can you take it outside? I'm just feeling my buzz and now she wants me to go outside where there is no where to sit or any place comfortable to just kick back. So I said "Baby please you know there is nowhere to kick back." She then just blew up I mean she went off her nut and let me have it. So now we are in the wicked fight and she's not talking to me, I hate that. It has been 9 hrs since she has said a word and all of a sudden she comes up to me and gives me this ultimatum......either it's ME or your POT! Then she just walks away. I'm left standing there with my mouth down to the floor, this is one of the sweetest women I have ever known which is why I married her, but to just drop that kind of bomb on me and walk away I don't know what to do or say. Any advice out there? Oh and we have been married for 3 yrs. good years too.

     
  2. could it be the smoke? when i'm inside a smoke filled room I get very agitated. doesnt matter if its weed or cigarettes


    you have no idea how annoying it is if you're the one smoking


    so my advice is take a t-break for a week or two, then start again but never smoke inside
     
  3. Try using a vaporizer. The smell is a lot less and if you can get your wife to agree (I mean it's unfair for her to switch it up knowing you've been smoking) then, you should be alright. Kinda unfair for her to do that to you.
     
  4. #4 papabull, Jun 30, 2015
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    You know what to do. You know how you really feel about your wife. You know how important it is to smoke. You know how she'll behave if you don't do what she tells you to do. Your call.

    I once changed the name of my fishing boat to "Force2choose".

    My current wife is a lot more understanding. :)
     
  5. thanks for the good advice guys. I just have to find a new place where I can have a man cave and be by myself when I smoke, because she is worth it!
     
  6. Do everything you can to keep her in your life. Mary Jane never lets you down




    gay but couldnt resist :D

     
  7. My gf used to be kinda like that. She never flipped off the handle, but everytime she could smell it she complained about the smell. Then once i got a vape (Extreme Q) she hasnt complained since. Faint smell and it fades away rather quickly.
     
  8. This would be your best option i think,of course then she will start complaining your spending to much time in the man cave.
     
  9. edibles. nuff said... :p
     
  10. The only way to compromise is to vape but it sounds like she isn't trying to compromise .. id challenge her on it and just keep on & shes serious and puts you thru some epic divorce over weed smoke then she wasnt the one in first place .. in the end you'll have a new story to tell & it'll be about your woman who's for weed smoke instead of against it ..
     
  11. Bitches come and go. Mary Jane will always be there for you
     
  12. why not buy a chair to sit in outside, keep the girl and smoke weed?
     
  13. if it wasn't the pot it would be something else I wouldn't compromise once you do that you are around her finger I would break up with her first be like you really lost something then quit talking to her she will be back they always come back.
     
  14. Fuck ultimatums when they already knew..for years.


    Sounds like she's got a tight grip, it's only been 3 years man..better get a handle on that.
     
  15. You guys have a lot of really good ideas, and this one is a great idea the only thing is where we live there really isn't room for a chair but there would be if I were to just bring it back in when i'm done. This may just work. By the way she still isn't talking to me!
     
  16. Crazy right man? I mean wtf!!! I'm thinking there is something else going on here and now it's up to me to figure it out. She is worth is I have to say cause she's like never said or done anything like this before. So the journey begins.............
     
  17. I really do wish you the best of luck, but to me it sounds like you are lazy and unproductive. Maybe you sit around all day smoking pot, maybe the lawn needs to get cut, garbage needs to get changed, house needs some fixing. Sounds like she has put up with stuff for too long, always turning a blind eye, hoping you get the point and snapped.


    Sorry if that was harsh and hopefully is not true but it is something to think about. A relationship is a 2 way street, you need to work together.
     
  18. Sounds like you are making progress. No talking means no bitching.
     

  19. first off, this isn't about you smoking ganja. you have pissed her off in some other way. she is trying to take your ganja away to punish you. here is how you handle it. ask her what is wrong. when she says the ganja is this or the ganja is that, say to her "come on now, what is really bothering you?" just keep at it. trust me, she will break. when she does and you fix what ever it is your woman is pissed off about, you need to set her strait as far as you and ganja go.


    tell her it is off the table. that if she wants to create some petty issue over ganja then she is welcome to do it. but she will do it some where else. because you would never come between anything she was doing that was making her happy like ganja makes you haappy. and because of that you must love her more then she loves you and as far as you are concerned maybe you need to find someone who loves you they way you need them too. you do all of that for her right? try and make her happy? always bring what ever stupid argument she comes up with back to ganja making you happy and that you would never force or make her do anything, more so if the thing made her as ganja makes you. just keep coming back to it. again and again.


    my wife is a lot like yours. and yes every problem she had with ganja was related to some stupid male thing i did. like putting one or both feet directly in my mouth. as males we do that....all the fucking time. so you will unfortunately be apologizing often. women have these stupid things called feelings. as males ours are under developed like a 5 year old retard eating snails. its bullshit if you ask me. fucking women and their wily feminine charms argggg. i realized also that i wasn't living up to my responsibilities as a husband to my wife. and no, it had nothing to do with giving her the ol' pork sword. that kind of thinking will have your wife trying to take your ganja away again.


    i do things for my wife often. when i go to the store i bring back something for her like a card or a flower or a teddy bear. i make sure i do something to make said little presents personal. i do great on bdays and anniversaries but that isn't the point. like the 30k wedding set i got for my wife. its a reminder that i would do anything for her. where the the small personal gifts i do to reminder her she is special to me and i think of her always. so she knows and understands that i am not just doing this thing to shut her up. i am doing this thing because i want to and her happiness is just as important as mine. i dont know if your wife likes the same things as my wife so that part is up to you to deal with. how do i know this works? because my wife never hassles me about ganja unless i smoke a big ol stinky bong rip and the smell wakes her up.to be honest, it is a bit offensive to others if they dont smoke.


    how about setting up a room or space in your house that is more conducive to smoking the ganja funk free? fans, air cleaner, open window, shut the door, etc, etc. trust me when i say that by doing simple shit like that will also help her climb out of your ass. regardless of what ever happen in the future, you need to put your foot down and let her know it isn't ok to take anything away from you. she can certainly come and talk about it but in no uncertain terms is she your boss or is she your master. equal? sure. best friend? absolutely. numero uno in your life? fuck ya! you get her to see that you feel that way about her and she will be packing your bowls and lighting your doobies.


    good luck bro [​IMG]





     
  20. As I've gotten older and around more..I've realized the good women don't tell you what to do. They express what they like/don't like in the beginning of the relationship and stick to it. And that's how it should be.


    If she is really angry about something else and wants to punish you via taking away your ganja as ajroxit implied, then she is beyond my level of crazy tolerance.


    Honestly so many western women are controlling, as soon as she shows that card I'm out.
     

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