I've been enrolled in a health course to get a raise for my job. The class size was about 10 people over this week mostly with new hires and a couple of them are cute I'm thinking but they're fresh out high school, I don't think about them too much but as we're getting to know each other blonde girl asked me if I could train her once she actually starts working. I don't know how to really respond so I tell her yeah maybe and her face turns red. Sometimes during break she would ask me random stuff about my job. I look at her at different angles though, could definitely tell she was most likely not 18. Not going to lie, she's attractive but I feel like this is a weird situation since we now work together. She giggles a bit when talking to me, and twice this happened I came back from a bathroom break and she's there at the desk staring at me twirling her hair and smiling as I walk back to my seat. I find it flattering but creepy at the same time. Honestly I'm still interested in a girl there that I went out with a while back and we're probably going to be hanging out again and she's closer to my age. The deal is that I'm 25. If she wasn't sending these signals I wouldn't even bother thinking about her but I'm just honestly starting to creep myself out. I've admitted this girl is attractive and very flirty but I'm likely 8-9 years older. I would still brush it off if she was a random on the street flirting but we work together. Tell me if this is weird; I did consider asking to get lunch down the street. Hangout with her or date her for fun but not sex her, but I feel like this could ruin my good reputation at work and just because I may be too afraid of it escalating. Not something I want. Not prepared for those possible consequences. I don't think ignoring her is an option. What do you do?
You are 25, and she is 9 years younger than you. So that means she is 16? Why is she taking these classes? Something doesn't add up.
I would ask her out for lunch I mean get to know her on a better level and go from there I mean you never know she might have a old man complex grandpa. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
Fuck I'm to high to be giving out advice right now I should have done the math in my head lol. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
I don't actually know how old she is, I did figure 16 was probably too young but some people just look young for their age but maybe she graduated early who dafuq knows There were other girls there who recently graduated high school but they're 18. I'm reading more about this online and I'm just not getting good vibes about really entertaining a hangout. I look younger so it wouldn't be a weird site but it just doesn't seem worth it. Maybe I'll just see how the next few weeks play out.
I don't see a problem. She is either older than you think she is, or she is smart as fuck for her her age. Just stick it in. That is the only thing to do!
Is it wrong to think "damn if she was a little older, I wouldn't give it a second thought and proceed to smash"? I do see a psychologist sometimes for a different issue, think I'll get help there too. I feel a little ashamed to be feeling this way
Sober thoughts let me realize the best thing to do is do nothing I think. Nothing wrong with flirting just don't act out on it. I need to let her know I'm 25 years old. If she chases harder I'd have to let me superiors know. Thanks for the support, and idk yummybud Oh and age of consent is 18 in California
Rule # 1 - Don't shit where you eat.... In other words... Don't date people where you work.... Rule # 2 - If she isn't 18, don't risk going to jail, or getting a permanent sexual offense/pedophile record. Rule # 3 - Fantasize all you want, but keep it to yourself.
Why do your posts follow this pattern. You ever thought of asking a different forum, maybe one that isn't weed centered and would better cater to your seemingly one track posting pattern of 'hey guise, theres this gurl..' Also, are you actually just yummybud20?
If she is underage leave no paper trail if you proceed to commence banging. No texts, no messages, no nudes, no cum in her or on her possessions. Other than that bang away. What fun is life without a little risk?
I love fucking girls much younger than me. Something so hot about it. The last chick I dated was a Moroccan girl that was 18 and had a thing for older guys. I'm 32...so she was 14 years younger than me xD OP - you need to figure her age out through casual interaction and smash accordingly if she's legal. You'll regret it later on if you don't.
You're right about asking relationship questions on a weed site but this is a section for relationship advice. I went ahead and started taking these types 9f questions to an actual dating help site. I'm very inexperienced with women for my age because of a long relationship I was in that started in early high school, but I've realized there are a lot of women out there who straight up want to get it on. Just not someone underage especially someone I work with. I don't need advice on this anymore. I think a better question would have been what would be considered a more appropriate age gap. About yummybud idk what to tell you because the only way to prove I'm not him would be to ask a mod to cross check our ip's, if it matters