I would like my ex, who I dumped, back ...

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by SolidGoldTurd, May 21, 2015.

  1.  So yeah, I broke up with her a month ago after this stupid argument.
     
     I regret it so much.
     
     
     She did contact me 2 weeks after, we hadn't spoken at all since.
     
     
     I took a week to respond to it though, because I didn't really know if she wanted me to :/
     
     
     
     
     I sent her an apology last week, which she took 3 days to reply (which is fine I guess).
     
     I wanted to apologise for my behaviour and the things I said the last time we saw each other (i.e when the break up happened) 
     
     She replied that what I said in the apology was "totally not true" that my behaviour and the things I said were "completely understandable and not rude at all". 
     
     She even went on to say that she should be the one to take the blame for being unfair ..
     
     
     
     
     Does she still have feelings / do I have a chance?
     
     GO!

     
  2. Billions of women in this world, and you want to go dumpster diving for just one?
     
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    My advice on your situation : take her back? This thread just seems like you bragging about yourself and how you were cool enough to break up with this girl and can get her back. I gave my advice now i think ill let others chime in on this awesomely badass thread.
     
    Way to use the quote feature too...alot of newcomers dont really know how to use the site right off the bat :D
     
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     Sure, billions of women in the world ... with over half of them being double my age or + ... restricting the "billions" you claim there are "in this world".
     
     I'm restricted to women of my own country, which is of approx 60 million ... but then downgrades it to 8 million in my city.
     
     Assuming the majority of the women here are double my age and + it brings it down to thousands ... of which many are already taken or interested in other men ....
     
     
     Yeah, I'd rather go back to someone I still love and care for ...
     
  5.  
    Write her a well thought out letter explaining your feelings 
     
    Since none of us are her, or know her, we don't know if you have a chance. 
     
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     Thank you for your input! I was awaiting it eagerly!!
     
     I'm not your average "newcomer" then ... stop flattering me!
     
     
     I'm not here to brag at all (no, really, I'm not). It might seem so, but I'm here because I need advice on what to do to get her back.
     
     Hands up, I made a very stupid and rash decision to break up with her ... it was a spur of the moment thing!
     
     
     That being said, what makes you think she still has feelings for me? and may want to take me back? (serious questions)
     
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     I respect that none of you are.
     
     She hates letters or anything that's cringy/over the top - that much I know.
     
     She'd rather get a text-apology, than someone showing up unannounced to her house.
     
     
     Why would she take the blame for being "unfair" ... I don't think she was too unfair ... it was me who was an utter douche to her!
     
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    How old are you? You said most women in your city are twice your age. 8 million people? So you must be in NY? If most all the women there are twice your age and NY's leading age for women is 40-44 years old, then you must be in your early teens/20s. You got a long way to go. Wouldnt worry about it too much over just one girl. :smoke: 
     
    Also, if you want people to take you seriously, don't use parenthesis. 
     
    To all your other comments/responses: 
     
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     I'm from the UK, the leading country this side of the pond for oldies. The population here has been ageing for donkey years.
     
     You know, you don't need to be rude ... I haven't insulted you in any way.
     
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    You need to express your feelings to her in one form or another. You want her back right? Get to steppin.   
     
  11. Or you could quit restricting yourself to what you think you know.
     
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     She's under a lot of stress with her finals at the moment ... they end in a month's time.
     
     I'd be happy if we get to meet up after they've ended to resolve this shite!

     
     If that means shagging 40 year old women ... naaaaah, I'll skip [​IMG]
     
  13. #13 Lenny., May 21, 2015
    Last edited: May 21, 2015
    In which case you aren't really accomplishing anything by posting here. None of us have the capacity to help you. The longer you wait the further she will drift away from you. 
     
    Remember to express your feelings to her in the most meaningful way possible.
     
  14. I like how GC is just the unofficial ask blog for all things. 
     
  15. Apparently now it is. People are like "Uhh I used all my tooth paste, wut should I do now."
     
  16. I thought this group was about marijuana and affiliated topics...not lonely hearts club...
     
  17. Man I've been through this relationship plenty of time you don't apologize over the phone you have to confront her in person grab her and tell her you're sorry and if you love her coz I was well and remember it's always the guys fault it works
     
  18. Or just have some mean, nasty dirty makeup sex. Just grab that bitch and say "look here bitch, I'm sorry!" Now come hop on yo man n let me take you out of this misery to a world where every minute is exiting.
     
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    This "Group" consists of humans, so of course we pursue more than one thing. :smoke:
     
  20. #20 MissBonnieBud, May 29, 2015
    Last edited by a moderator: May 29, 2015
    Why? People that smoke weed have a common tie, regardless of where in the world we are from. So that opens the door to discussing other things we have in common. Unlike some people, i can discuss things other than marijuana. The forum is called 'Sex, Love and Relationships', for a reason.
     

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