should i date my old friends ex?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by sublimesun, May 21, 2015.

  1. so this friend i went to high school with has been dating this girl on and off for the last couple of years. after we graduated me and my friend stopped talking a whole lot but we would still chill and smoke like once or twice a year. anyways, he met this girl and she is pretty cool, they got pretty serious and whenever id come over we all 3 would just chill n smoke and drink. she would always be asking me about the girls ive been seeing and trying to hook me up with her friends, it never really work between any girls she set me up with though. whenever i would go over there i would think to myself how cool my buddys girl was and how if i was gunna date a girl it would have to be a girl like her. my friend would complain to me about her and it was always bullshit that i never got why he was bitching. anyways a few months ago i found out on facebook that they broke up again and she moved out and got her own place. i texted my buddy asking how he was and he never responded, i texted her and she was stoked i texted her. she asked if i wanted to chill and smoke so i agreed and a few days later went to her place to hang out. we smoked a few joints and walked down to a bar and got a beer. honestly the whole time i was getting the date vibe, esp when she asked if i wanted to get beer and just go back to her place. i drank a beer and made up and excuse to get outta there before i got drunk and did something without having a clear head. i asked if she wanted to hang out again and she is more than down and wants to see my place.
    now if my old buddy found out i was trying to hook up with/date his ex he would not talk to me again. but this girl is super dope, has a degree and a career, and is smokin hot. she also like pretty much everything i do. should i just tell her my intentions next time we chill?

     
  2. #3 WaxPayne, May 21, 2015
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    You barely talk to this buddy of yours anymore correct? Imo, it's free game man. One reaps the benefits of what another once lost. [​IMG]
     
  3. yea not really anymore at all. we will make plans to chill and not go through with them. half the time she was the one who organized it. i think it is too, all is fair in war and love right? i think thats how it goes
     
  4.  
    Well judging by your two posts, she sounds like she was into you the whole time. I'd go for it.  I wouldn't be doing it to one of my close friends that I constantly see, but an acquaintance is just an acquaintance. 
     
  5. see id consider him a friend more than an acquaintance, but yea i always kinda got that vibe from her a little. more so now.  im just hoping im not gunna embarass myself when i tell her ive been diggin her for a long time and that i think she should consider me.
     
  6.  
    There is no shame in being honest. 
     
  7. Id say go for it. It honestly doesn't even sounds like you guys were close enough friends to even have to ask him if he'd be ok with you guys dating. Good luck and keep us posted
     
  8. Your 'friend' sounds like a douche
     
  9. I had sex with a lot of my friends exes but I digress. If you like her, let nothing stand in your way.
     
  10. Touchy situation amigo, you must weigh your options carefully.  You may end up with no friend and no girl.
     
    Personally if I did decide to hang out with her, I would prob let her make the move..or be as close to 100% as possible that she is actually into me and/or not just using me to get back at said friend before making mine.
     
  11. you don't need us to tell you its ok. stop being so shy and what not. that chick is giving you the all clear. you seem like you want this thing to happen.
     
    go. for. it. before you fuck it all away because guys like me, we don't do shy. we swoop in for the kill. use it before you lose it. [​IMG]
     
  12. go for it man you only live once.[​IMG]
     
  13. yeah do it.
     
  14. Fair game man, hit it up!
     
  15. Well, I have hooked up with two of my friends ex girlfriend. I got a black eye in my graduation picture and a son with a stranger to show for it.
     
     
    So my track record's not looking so hot. [​IMG]  Albeit the situations were a bit different from yours... IDK, use your judgement. She definitely wants to smash.
     
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