Curious to people's thought on this. So I have a really hot 40 year old woman who's my neighbor across the street. Have known her mother and her mother's husband (who passed away) for 10+ years, have had less contact with her, the daughter, but some. Anyways she is smoking hot for a 40 year old, and I really would like to bang her. So, I was considering calling her at her house and casually asking if she would like to have sex. Something like "Hey this is "me" your neighbor across the street how are you doing. I figured I didn't have anything to lose by asking this so I'll ask, I was wondering if maybe you would like to come over to my place and have some sex?" I don't really have anything to lose if she takes it badly, I never talk to her anyways and rarely see her, so I don't care if she hold a vendetta against me. I'm 21 so it's not anything illegal. One thing going against my odds of her saying yes is that she is a Christian and I know her to be abstinent before marriage. But she's had 2-3 husbands before, single now, and I'm thinking maybe in her more mid years she might be more open. Thoughts on this? Too rude? Not worth it? Fuck yeah?
good lord! don't call up a widdowed neighbor you have long ties with and ask point blank: 'u down to fuck this dumb 21 yr old who's full of cum ?' smh
She's not married. And I hardly know her. I think I might have had one 2 minute conversation with her since I've been their neighbor. She didn't live at that house for quite a while.
Where were you able to make the inference that she is a widow? Can I hit the shit you're smoking? Actually no I wouldn't hit that shit. I have no reason to believe she's ever been widowed. Oh never mind I see where you got that from. I knew her mother's husband, not the daughters husband. Her mother's husband is the one who passed away.
Don't. What if she reports you for sexual harassment? What if you get sentenced? What if there was a dot on your house on a map? Don't.
I live in Florida. If you can find a law that makes asking a woman to have sex illegal I might consider your point. Definition and Liability Sexual Harassment Florida law specifically defines what constitutes a "sexual harassment" offense. According to Lawyers.com, this is defined as any "unwelcome sexual advances, conduct or other physical or verbal acts of a sexual nature, which occur in the workplace." Read more : http://www.ehow.com/list_6134735_sexual-harassment-laws-florida.html
it' such a stupid fucking idea - i can't even fully grasp it. and it's not the weed. i just had a nasty break-up with the love of my life and i can't think or see straight
No I could see how it was confusing, I said "I've know her mother and her husband" I thought it would be implied that I was talking about the mother's husband.
It's a matter of perspective. She might see it as an "unwelcome sexual advance". You said she's a Christian? Disregarding the fact that increased zealousness comes with age she could also use her faith to influence the jury.
In the workplace? Since you're implying that she doesn't like that, what makes you think she wouldn't? And why would it be a bad idea for me to find out? Not trying to be snippy, just looking for solid reasoning.
How about just ask her over for coffee. "If you ever feel like having some coffee (emphasis on the "coffee") you know where to find me. Then you walk away. See this way she doesn't have to make a decision right on the spot. One which she may regret but can go back on if she changes her mind. If you leave a crack in the door she might come over one night when she really does feel like getting dirty. the crack is metaphorical don't leave your door unlocked.