Ok so my man isn't into me anymore. He would rather mix his songs than fuck me. I've tried sexy lingerie, dressing up, even walking in front of him naked but he just ignores me. I work hard to keep my body looking good. Wtf is wrong with me? I just want have dirty sex! Is that too much to ask for? What am I doing wrong?
Life is short, go find someone that into you. You're already beginning to have esteem problems, very soon you will begin thinking you aren't good enough for anyone.
Hes just into mixing music or whatever. Hasnt lost interest, at night when you go to bed get naked an lay down an when he gets in start cuddling an rubbing his leg with urs, then start talking about how much you want sex. He will most likely get involved.
Seriously? If she has to do all that to get him to "most likely get involved" then he has lost interest. Most childish and ridiculous comments I have ever seen on this forum, if she has to do all that she might as well beg him for sex.
Why arent you just a lil bit grumpy? Wasnt really childish just a suggestion. He just might not be "translating" her body language. You never know. He may not even notice because hes into mixing music. If youve never been into somethong so much that you kind of put other things on hold, althought this idk about but hey he mght be a little off. Have a good day...
Honestly, I usually stay away from the relationship stuff here as the last thing I want to do is offer advice when I am only given a tiny bit of information. If things are as you're describing, there are a number of potential reasons for this sort of behavior. Depression or other medical conditions can cause changes to a person mentally or alter a person's libido. Infidelity can do this too. Some people will go through stages as well. While most of the time I'm down to get busy with a woman a couple times a day, there are times where I've lost all urge for sex completely, but it's not too long of a duration (a couple days, maybe a week tops). As with many other threads here, the best advice I can offer you is to do your best to step back and analyze the situation. Try to remove any bias you might have and see the situation for what it really is. Use an outsider's perspective and once you have enough information to make the best decision for YOU, be decisive and stand firm behind that decision. Whether it's to continue the relationship because you love him and believe he's just going through a rough patch or choosing to seek a relationship that contains more reciprocity as opposed to seeming like a one-way road. Relationships are a collaboration, not a solo act. Voice your concerns, but don't attack. Other than that, I really can't offer much more advice. Hoping for the best.
Your advice about the communication was solid I give you that, but the advice I quoted was childish and ridiculous.
Could be he has low testosterone. If he's eating/drinking soy products, they contain estrogen, which is also a mood killer I suspect you have tried to talk with him, but he is likely too embarrassed to discuss it If he's the jealous type, you could fake a relationship to see how he responds hth
How long have you guys been together? Natural progression of a relationship? I'll tell ya, I don't want to fuck the shit out of my wife a couple times a day anymore like I used to when we first met.
Hate to say it but when it's not there, it's not there. You gotta do whats best for you and make yourself happy.
Hold on now, don't go cheating just yet just handle it yourself. You're still married, this will have a civil repercussion for you if he shows you do so and your pleading the 5th is meaningless.