haha fuk i havne't gotten laid in 2 years now.... hmm yeah well it's kind of embarrassing having large pimples when i go out so i try hard not to wack off at all.... hard with the internet porn.
from what i've read it has to do with testosterone being converted to the more active form DHT. when you have an orgasm whether jerking off or having sex apparently from what i've read more testosterone gets converted to DHT, and DHT effects acne, probably for people that have acne / hormonal acne.
For a healthy adult male, that is just about right. Not too much by any stretch. I am usually a twice a day-er myself.
but perhaps the longer you wait to beat it the more testosterone builds up and when you release thus more 'DHT' is being produced. Perhaps doing it every day still produces dht but a less amount as opposed to barely
haha i don't know i've gone without it for a while now.... it's tough cus i'm always working on my computer. but i'm also tired all the time from studying school right now and I just don't think about it. that's possible.... i just try to limit it as much as humanly possible lol.
Every day, sometimes multiple times, It's not even a sexual thing half the time it's more the fact i'm stoned and it feels good
I personally would recommend not doing it at all, but if you cant quit it I would say do it once or at most twice every week. I have attempted to quit multiple times and they all end in failure and now it just embarrassing, and that is exactly why I need to quit this shit.
Masturbation is not a problem unless it interferes with other parts of your life. So if you are missing school/work to jerk it, having problems in the bedroom, or engaging in masturbation in places you're not supposed to; then it's a problem. Otherwise, pet the walrus as much as you want! If you are a high frequency 'bater, I'd consider using lotion. High frequency being once or more a day. I am a 3-4 times a week guy, but it varies.
When im staying all day home, bored and high as fuck i keep jerking off till my dick gets so small i cant grab it.
The reason you fail is because you are setting crazy unobtainable goals. Stop masturbating all together? That's crazy, man. 1-2 times a week is okay. 3-4 times a week is okay. Hell, once a day is okay! I have friends who have girlfriends and they still choke the chicken occasionally, some at the same frequency they were at prior to the girlfriend. I've seen some posts mention potential side effects, but I would remind everyone that correlation is not causation. Yes, there are risks associated with 'bating (skin irritation, popping blood vessels) but these can be addressed. It's really not about how often you do it, but rather what are the circumstances in which you do it. It's only a problem if it is disrupting your life.
When I am attempting to quit something but keep having a hard time it is a problem to me. I don't do it often but I would like to not do it all.
I understand that and certainly don't mean to offend you. I just don't want people thinking masturbation is unhealthy, because that is inaccurate. If you don't mind me asking, why do you want to quit?
I am not offended and apologies if I came out too aggressive with my last post. I really don't have any reason to quit besides just wanting to quit, I just don't want to do it anymore lol.