I usually try not to read too much into dreams but this keeps gnawing at me and it's getting harder to ignore so I thought maybe talking about the dream would help make more sense of it or at least make me feel better. It's happened 3 times now in 2 weeks. It starts out I'm back in this small town I graduated high school in and my closest friend is home from college and we're spending time together just hanging out around town and everything is pretty normal besides the fact that there are a much larger number of people walking around this town then usual. We're just having fun and then somehow almost instantly things get intimate and we go from hanging out in the town as friends to dating walking around holding hands. Then I wake up and stare at my ceiling for about 15 minutes wondering wth that was all about. Usually my dreams are short and hectic and aren't as drawn out and detailed. We dated very briefly in high school for less then 2 months and broke up but still remained friends. Not going to lie it took me a little while to get over that but now that's over 4 years ago and things have been fine we hangout a few times a year it's all good. I tell myself I've moved on from her and it's best to find someone new for both of us but it seems like my dreams don't want to let the idea go. Now I'm just confused. It did make me feel better to write this though. Any thoughts are welcome.
No, I'm joking. Sorry. lol It's the weed. Honestly, friend, I think the dream is simply an actual harbinger. That is to say, you'll probably go back home (trust me, the occasion will arise) for some time, for either relaxation?, or a family gathering?, or a high-school reuninion?, etc., and so will she. You guys'll hang out, and, "click" with one another, simply because everything else is foreign to you TWO old townees (hence, your surprise at all of the new activity in town); thus bringing your relation closer together amidst (and because of) all of the queer "otherness" (it's kind of like, you know how you're in some place that's sort of uncomfortable, or, real boring, and you're more willing to do and hang out with anyone just to escape that condition, so you cling and attract to whatever will allow you to abate or escape such a dissatisfied state [which can either be by means of another person, or an object, or a location, or a substance, etc.,; but in the case of your circumstantial dream, another person]). At least, that's how I see it (I'm willing to bet that you will, for better or for worse, run into that girl, somewhere, sometime in the near future); I really do believe that, and have actually experienced, dreams can anticipate (in one way, or another) certain events which shall come to pass (how? I know not).
Even weirder she sent me a message today talking about a dream she had about me. Kinda weirdin me out.
OMG. Lol, damn; I didn't know I was that good (I mean, I may have not been totally right, as I even stated that I probably wouldn't be, word for word [obviously not]; but I was right in saying that that dream was an actual harbinger, wherein you two will have, one day, some day, contact with one another). Do you like her?
Damn dog, thinking about this really got me trippin (it's some trippy sht). Im too high for this. LOL
Are you some kind of wizard? I'm not really sure kinda confused about that I suppose. I used to 2-3 years ago but I've been trying to make a point of moving on cause I felt like me being interested in her was closing me off from other girls and felt like I had spent enough of my time pursuing her. Bro, you're telling me. I'd be lying though if I said it was the first time trippy shit has happened like that with her. I shouldn't have smoked before I started typing this. I had to keep stopping to laugh at how crazy it is.
When was the last time you guys had any kind of contact? Lol, no, I'm not a wizard; but I don't do smoke a lot of weed at the holiday inn. Right, man; and the funny thing is, later on in that day (the day I wrote that post), or what was the day after? I can't really remember. But I do remember thinking to myself (prior to your response and all), that it's odd that this guy didn't respond in any sort of way; I wonder what will happen to OP (and what will come of his dream)? And then, bam; I read your post, high as a kite. Sht tripped me the fuuuuugggggg out, when I first read it; I was dying laughing when too (for some reason). Thinking to myself, like, damn! What are the odds. lol
Last time we hung out was around late November. It was alright we hung out smoked a bunch, she had just broken up with her boyfriend We had to end the night early though I had to go pick up my friend who was drunk. Yeah I was actually going to this site to respond right after I checked my email then the message popped up. We talked more about her dream and it went like this... She said she was visiting some family hundreds of miles away and she found out that I was in town and got excited and came to find me and when she did she gave me hug but then she looked at what I was holding and it was a bookbag filled with salsa. I do really like salsa.
It might not be about the girl at all. People often dream of a particular person, but it is often about the time period or the situation that you were in. Perhaps, there was something you enjoyed about that time period. Perhaps the girl had a quality that you enjoyed. Instead of focusing on the person, focus on the whole situation and try to figure out what it was that you might be thinking about.