Is it just me, or is it very conflicting to want to maintain respect with certain women, when they are too damn fearful to let a 1on1 happen, but end up giving a yes/maybe? And then the classic trials of them not giving effort to make it happen later come into play. I can't respect this shit. No I'm not in an emotional rut. Might I add that friends who come through on the regular, but flake sometimes are excluded and get a pass (somewhat). It's these ones that you're genuinely trying to get to know. In my head they gas themselves up with the idea that they're "in demand" and over-exaggerate your approach. What are some insights you have about this?
If women are scared to be alone with you, you need to start examining your life. Not actually joking. If it's just some girl, whatever. Don't sweat it.
I don't really understand what you are talking about Do you mean the ones who don't have the vaginas to just say no, and then say yes or maybe to a date, and then never react to it because they didn't really want to go? If so, it is because it is really hard turning someone down, you get all ''I dont want to hurt this person'', and ''I'll deal with it later'', and then later, it is much easier ignoring texts or calls, and just avoiding the person then actually meeting up and doing it face to face.
That's the gist of it, and the person doing that needs to look at the big picture empathetically, and enough "no" answers will give most people the right hint, to me that's ok and often better than overasserting. If it's in the talks then try to make it happen later is what I believe.
If a girl doesnt want to be alone with you its something youre doing. Never had a problem with a girl being alone with me unless she very obviously is not into me
And op thats EXACTLY what theyre doing. Gassing themselves up acting like theyre time is super valuable. Heres a life tip a majority of girls are boring as FUCK. Shes most likely not doing anything but watching tv. So you do it right back, trust me ive had this happen before. Youre making yourself to available to her and therefore letting her choose when you guys chill which will be most likely when she needs an ego boost. Your time is valuable and she should be lucky to be able to get some of it. This is the mindset you must have. And if you guys make plans and she flakes, if she hits you up 2 hours later or whatever saying "sorry (insert lame excuse) can we chill now?" You either dont respond or say no you flaked so i made other plans. I see way too many guys being to available to females then get mad when they get walked all over