Of course. The idea that someone else would be responsible for every single orgasm you have is bonkers.
I don't see my girl for a week at a time. mostly fridays and saturdays are when we're together. So im not getting any during the week. Sometimes i'm horny all week, sometimes i dont masturbate for a week or two at a time. This week is gonna be hard though, i have spring break this week, she has it next week. at least she'll be staying here when she's on break though. Y'all know what that means For me watching porn makes me feel guilty a lot though. I feel like my girl should be the only one im getting off with or too.
My boyfriend and I still masturbate, but not that often since we rather have sex. Sometimes when I'm asleep since I don't wear pajamas, he'll grab the booty while he masturbates. It doesn't disturb me and I think it's cute haha
It keeps the pipes clean for the men. Neither right nor wrong. It is whatever you want to do. I usually didn't in relationships because I had plenty of sex anyhow.
Well considering the fact that I live with my folks and not a S.O., it's not like I have the opportunity to fuck whenever I want. And I guarantee I'll have a hard time finding a gal with a sex drive like mine, or at least one that'll stay as unwavering as mine. I wack it all the time, with or without a relationship. I see no qualm to be had. Though I will say, I generally cut down on porn when I have a S.O. Not necessarily because it's been asked of me and not because I see it as cheating or anything. I just don't feel the same desire to beat the meat to it. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
You can't deny someone sex and then be mad when they pleasure themselves. It's their fault for turning them down. I don't hide it anymore from my wife. If she's not Gonna take care of me then ill take care of myself. Nothing like jerking off to help me fall asleep at night.! At least I'm not cheating with another person.!
As long as you're not neglecting your relationship by constantly turning to masturbation instead of sex, I don't see a problem with it. Some people act like if you have a significant other, you should always want to have sex with them instead of masturbating. To me that's like saying "you have a whole kitchen you can cook amazing food in, why would you ever want to swing through McDonald's for a Big Mac?"
People need to be able to please themselves and not let their partners hold a sexual monopoly over them. I can't see why masturbation in a relationship is wrong. You own yourself. Letting someone else use sexual gratification as a bargaining tool or dictating your own ability to satisfy yourself sexually is wrong.
I have sex daily, even 2-3 times occasionally. I still jerk off daily too, but I'm 19 and have a high sex drive. Or do I just have a problem? Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
What if your SO gives you blue balls and has to go somewhere? Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
I have been married twice, both were/are sexually fulfilling, and have been sexually active for around 25-30 years....I mastubate on the regular, yo. You mean, there are people that don't?