Masturbating When in a Relationship

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by alicedee07, Mar 27, 2015.

  1. I'm curious as to what people think of this. First off, to this in a relationship, do you still masturbate? Is it right or wrong to? Or perhaps even healthy? 

     
  2. Its normal..baters gonna bate
     
  3. This pissed off my ex greatly.

    On the nights of the red moon, what the fuck am I suppose to do?
     
  4. I mean it all depends, personally speaking from a male perspective if your getting pussy whenever you want then I don't see the point in beating it.

    I just prefer one over the other.
     
  5. Sometimes I'm too tired to fuck or get someone else off.

    I can rub one out in 1 minute and not worry about someone saying "what about me?".

    Plus when you space out sex with a significant other it becomes a special event to be treasured.
     
  6. Isnt that bad practice tho? and I meant rubbing one out in a minute, wouldn't that make you last no more than a minute when it comes to PIV because you get way more excited?
     
  7. Not bad practice, I think it would give u blueballs though.
     
  8. Not if you do it often enough to desensitize your dick.
     
  9. I go through spells of it on the dl


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  10. My GF & I understand that masturbating alone  is not something we like never ever do again because we're in a relationship. People like to think that saying "you don't need to do that anymore" is somehow necessary.  Me & my hand been friends a long time. We might say hi from time to time, ya dig? LOL! It's not like either of us are cheating when we masturbate alone. We do it together a lot - what's wrong with doing it alone? What my GF doesn't like is that I will look at porn. But she understood when i told her that men need visual stimulation, that I'm not attracted to any of them  & that I close my eyes and think about her when I finish.....she understood. She looks at porn sometimes. We've watched together. We both use porn to get aroused - nothing more. 
     
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  11. A day without an orgasm is like a day without sunshine. Partner or no. ;)
     
  12. #12 bongtokes6200, Mar 27, 2015
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    why would it be an issue? what because your in a relationship now your not aloud to touch your own body??? i still do it, my dude still does it, whatever :confused_2:
     
  13. I will from time to time, usually after work in the mornings. Im sure my lady does too.

    No big deal.
     
  14. What he says
    . It's so much easier. You want to get off quick. Your Not trying to put forth the energy to get the other person off.....plus what about if the other person isn't feeling it at the particular moment? What if y'all were fucking but her mom walked in or something.....man I got to get mine one way or another
    So nope nothing wrong. But if your girl is taking care of you, you don't have anything to worry about now do you? Wink
     
  15. Uh... yeah. 
     
     
    How else am I suppose to fall back asleep when I wake up with some wood? 
     
  16. My GF gets pissed if I masturbate when she's home, cause in her mind she thinks, "If you're horny why not just fuck me?" Well, sometimes I like to bust a nut in the shower!
     
  17. She dont care. As long as I do it while I cook.
     
  18. I did in my past relationship.... But honestly I think she didn't find me physically attractive. Just used me so she could be "happy".


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  19. I do it every once in a while while she's either sleeping or not at home. But I wont go to my room and beat it if she just denied me a minute ago. It's normal man. I'm sure there's other ways to relieve stress and bring on pleasure, but it's easier if it consist of your dick.
     
  20. Depends how often I can see my girl, we both do it tho..and neither of us care.
     

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