this thread was about pedophilia and the fear of it but i decided i didn't wanna talk about it and it seems like grasscity (or at least one person) can't handle such a controversial topic in pandoras box anyway.
lol.. you got it just on time but anyway both come into my head. like the images come to mind and also the fear of someone thinking that of me. but more so the images that cross my mind. i don't care as much if someone thought this about but it's also very inconvenient, embarassing and makes me feel like a threat. basically i'm scared of being/becoming a pedophile and of people thinking im a pedophile. i think it's because im veryy sexually aroused and frustrated all the time these days and i have always loved kids so when the two come together it throws me off.
Well, that's the most ridiculous thing I've heard anyone say all day. I think you need more help than an internet forum can give.
i don't see why it's that ridiculous and i wasn't asking for help. i was simply sharing something and seeing who can relate. and as you can see i simply deleted the thread because i didn't even wanna talk about this with yall. thanks for the attack bruh i just took it as an attack but whatever it felt like an attack
You're right buddy. There is absolutely nothing ridiculous in feeling sexual arousal towards children. You are a fine example of a well adjusted individual bruh
You deleted the original post so I can't take that into account... from this post, I'm wondering if you're maybe a bit OCD or some other disorder that causes intrusive thoughts Is the whole deal that you're not actually attracted to children, you're just afraid of people thinking you are?
Could be that, although I read an interesting article about the hostility towards people who come forward looking for support and treatment options for their attraction to children. There's speculation that there may be a demographic of people who have these feelings but have no desire to harm children, and that the lack of support and cultural hostility to these individuals could actually contribute to rates of child molestation and child porn. Maybe we should think of these individuals as sick and needing treatment and help rather than evil monsters that need to be punished and reviled.
yeah it's what i consider an intrusive thought. i used to have them as a kid with killing my mom and maybe other people. i was on an unmentionable the other day and i started talking to my sister about this and she made an appointment with a psychiatrist. he saids it's not ocd but a mood disorder. he said i have had a low depression my whole life and these thoughts manifest from it. and yes that is the whole deal. these sexual thoughts come to my mind sometimes when im engaging in normal things with a child and hate thinking about it. to the point that it eats at me enough to make a thread about it i guess... or go cry somewhere (but probably not just about this) this is like the cherry on top of all my problems because i know i would never do anything of this nature
Exactly I don't know what the original post said but I think this could be a good lesson that if someone says "I'm attracted to children, what do I do?" the correct response is no where near "fuck you, you sick fuck" or anything of the sort. You become an offender, then yeah, absolutely fuck you. But before that? That point where someone is realizing it and saying "holy shit, help me", what good is it doing to tell them to fuck off? People who honestly have an attraction like that need help. We're all about how people can't help who they're attracted to until their attraction offends us and then it's "you're a shitty person, you're on your own" That's bullshit. People like that need help that they should be able to get without fear of being put in jail just for seeking treatment. Just think for a minute about what kind of damage we're doing by not giving these people any avenue to seek therapy, no options as far as getting better or overcoming it... we're leaving them in the cold and then we're shocked when they become sex offenders because they couldn't fix themselves on their own.
there should be a wall in your head there saying im an adult and that's a child if/when your mind wanders there.. if you're parinoid about being thought of as a pedophile then just dont be talkin with random children inviting them into your basement for a little slap and tickle if you catch my drift... and here is why you are having sexual urges im not saying you smoked shall i say it meth....
What the fuck.... Drugs do not equal bad sexual urges that is an extremely ignorant thing to say. They used to say if you smoked weed you'll become a rapist or criminal. I do a lot of unmentionables and never have urges like that. I can't believe people still think like this, I thought after people caught on about how wrong everyone was about weed they would realise maybe that they have been lied to about other drugs too...
See I think there's a difference too between actually being attracted to children and just having that demon in your mind that tells you things you don't want to think. Either way, dude, a therapist would be really, really good for you. Even if you don't like the first one you try, the second one you try, keep trying until you find that awesome therapist/psychologist/psychiatrist, someone who can actually help you work through your feelings and how to deal with them. Take the steps to get help, regardless of what your problems are they're affecting your life and getting help can only be a good thing.
completely true. this is one of the main reasons why i made this thread was because it's not that im attracted to children but i aknowledge that i think about kids sexually on occasions and i know that there's people with this problem. then i start asking myself how a pedophile becomes a pedophile and it's tremendously scary because these people i can imagine never wanted to be a menace to society and i find it hard to believe that grown people are born with an inherent sexual interest in children. it's a sick thing and i know i would never do it but the thought alone is despairing and i wanted to see if anyone could relate and speak on the topic and hopefully help someone and help myself. lmao this is the last thing i wanna think about. it causes rifts between me and my family. not big ones because they are really supportive of my crazy head (and i know i have a crazy head) but not everyone has support like i do.
I feel that doing certain drugs could make a person uninhibited enough to do something they wouldn't do when sober....