So there is this girl who's friends introduced me to her long ago, and she just recently started to come out more to where I work. For most parts of the nights she just hangs out with said friends (co-workers, dudes and chicks). I noticed that I'm the one man she seems to have her full attention on (I work at a bar), and will occasionally break away from her friends to hang out with me, talk, dance a little. She's always hugging me and super happy to see me when she gets there, and always makes sure to find me before she leaves to give me a hug, and has told me she loves me and that I was her soul mate (jokingly, of course I played along). I swear tonight though she was trying her hardest to make me jealous. She came in with her friends as usual, and they had a new guy with them (another co-worker), and she still did all aforementioned motions, but she seemed a little more awkwarder. I was just standing in their circle BSing with everybody and this new dude, introduced myself, he seemed pretty chill. Can't hate on the guy. But as the night progressed, they were all over each other, but it was only when they were within my sight, and she eventually left with him. I think I handled it pretty well if that was the case though It probably threw her off when I introduced myself to the guy and started having a chill conversation with him Told them both to have a good night when they left. She even hugged me and wrapped a leg around me I question where the night went, because usually co-workers don't fuck each other casually, or do they? I'm so fucking confused GC, why dafuq these honeys always gotta be playing games Regardless, I always have honey's throwing themselves at me, so no need to worry in that department.
Next time you talk to her see what's up, if she's acting how she normally does with you then she very well could of been trying to make you jealous...(the alternative option being she's a dick-thirsty hoe). But yeah, if a girl tries that jealously shit with me I'm straight up ignoring wherever she is at and talking to some other girls. That should stir the pot.
About halfway through reading I was starting to assume that you were just someone in the friendzone but I think there's something there. Ask her what she's doing this weekend, ask her if she would like to get drinks with you. If she comes up with an excuse, forget about it act like nothing happened and be like "ok yeah no problem have fun tonight"
hmm, i think if a chick is all over another guy in front of you she doesn't like you. and if she does which i doubt, and she is trying to make you jealous by pulling shit like that she sounds crazy and you should still forget about her. but when a girl likes a guy i think they usually don't hit on other guys especially not in front of a guy they want. if she left with that guy she probably left to have sex with him not make you jealous haha. I would abort and forget about her.
So, the girl was into you, sent you all the signals, and you never acted on it. Then you're jealous when she's with another guy? lol It really sounds like you didn't take the opportunity when it was there and she moved on.
Based on the words he used it doesn't sound like hes trippin' at all. He's wondering why chicks play games, its just what they do.